Episode 184: Secrets to Succeeding in Marriage (The Psychology of JP2, Part 4)

What are the "secrets to success" for dating, marriages, and relationships? In this episode, Dr. Greg discusses the profound and practical wisdom in JP2's book Love and Responsibility. Part 4 of our series on the psychology of Pope John Paul II.    Discussed in this episode: Personalistic norm: the most misunderstood principle in marriages and family dynamics A surprising and different way to understand love Dating mistake: Why it is backwards to look for the right person with a list of checkboxes The one question to ask during dating and the discernment of marriage Why a spouse's infidelity does not change your vow or "break the marriage" Using a person as a means to an end vs loving a person  Sexual complementarity and the two dualist errors harming marriages: rigorism and libidinism Tenderness: JP2 takes us a step further than empathy in relationships The correct understanding of "marriage as a remedy of concupiscence"  Resources mentioned or relevant:  Love and Responsibility by Karol Wojtyla (Pope John Paul II) Series on the psychology of JP2: Episode 180: The Psychology of JP2: A Bold Proposal Episode 182: Delving Deep into the Human Experience Episode 183: The Lead Domino Effect: Transformation Begins with a Blueprint Resources on dating and marriage: Marriage Mini-Course: A Free CatholicPsych Resource Episode 127: "I'm Gonna Want to Divorce You" Episode 131: The #1 Threat to Marriage Blog article: The One Most Important Quality to Look for in a Spouse Episode 122: There Is No Real Marriage Therapy Learn more about gender complementarity: Blog article: Celebrating the Differences of Men and Women Blog article: God Created Us to Need Each Other Episode 149: A New Approach to the Gender Crisis 4-part series on Gender Fluidity or Complementarity? How does the error of dualism impact your life? Blog article: You're No Angel, But Neither Am I Blog article: Who Are We? And What Heals Us? Episode 41: What Is Integration Anyway? Learn more about JP2's Theology of the Body: Man and Woman He Created Them (original text by JP2) Theology of the Body Explained by Christopher West TOB Books and Resources by Jason Evert Theology of the Body Institute  Please share your feedback and questions ([email protected]) and share this podcast episode with Catholic mental health professionals Need help? Schedule a free consultation with someone on our team to discuss how we can support you Want to help? Learn more about our Certification program: CatholicPsych Model of Applied Personalism Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, to stay up to date on the exciting developments at CatholicPsych Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog,  shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, courses, prayer resources, and more Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE's - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more! Follow:  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CatholicPsych  Instagram: @catholicpsych  X: @CatholicPsych Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at [email protected] - we would love to hear from you!   Rate, review, and subscribe   Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends.   Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings.   For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose "write a review." Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven't already, make sure to subscribe so you don't miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!