EPISODE 188: If Spanking Works… Why Are You Still Yelling?

from Be A Better Parent | For Every Child It Takes A Village... The Same Goes For Every Parent! · host Celia Kibler

When we hit, threaten, or shout, we don’t teach respect — we teach fear. In this straight-talking episode, I dismantle the myth that spanking “toughens kids up” and show you what actually builds strong, respectful humans: calm leadership, clear limits, and consistent follow-through. If you’ve ever wondered why the yelling keeps coming back after a spanking, this will connect the dots — and give you a better way.We’ll get practical: how to swap punishment for real-world consequences, how to set age-appropriate expectations, and how to give specific directions kids can actually follow (goodbye, vague “Be good”; hello, “Put the cars in the bucket”). You’ll hear why modeling matters. If we hit, we’re teaching hitting and how kindness plus firm boundaries raises confident, capable kids (not “soft” ones).You are not stuck with the way you were raised. You can be the calm leader your child needs — respected without fear, heard without yelling, and loved without conditions. I believe in you, and your kids will feel the difference.Ready to practice what you’ve learned?Join my 21 Days Stop Yelling Challenge! Simple daily steps to break the cycle and build a peaceful, respectful home. Start today at quityelling.com*******************************************************Are you ready to STOP YELLING AT YOUR CHILD in just 21 Days? Join my newest program at low introductory pricing... go to ⁠QUITYELLING.COM⁠1. Need more help? Let's grab some coffee or tea and talk. Go to TalkWithCelia.com and choose the time that works for you.2. Looking for a manual for parenting your child (now in English & Spanish)? It's finally here and you can grab your copy of my latest parenting & children’s books today!3. Become a Member of my TRANQUILITY TRIBE and STOP YELLING Once & For All.4. Read my latest article to find out how to stop yelling... https://celiaArticle.com5. Looking to be part of a fun free and informative FB community (without all the bitching)?... join us in Pumped Up Parenting6. Love YouTube? Do you know there are lots of parenting videos, story time videos for you and your kids, as well as some great family workout videos? All on Pumped Up Parenting with Celia Kibler7. Follow me on Instagram and TikTok8. Join me on my newest platform PEANUT: Connecting women across fertility & motherhood9. Get my parenting worksheet and other resources at PumpedUpParenting.Etsy.com10. Join us on ⁠THE INTERNATIONAL DAY OF CALM⁠, watch the full replay on our YouTube Channel @DayofCalmTake the Pledge, Support our Mission of the Day of Calm Foundation to SOOTHE THE ANGER & RAGE AT THE HUMAN CORE as we work to end senseless violence against our kids.Support our school in Uganda, Share the Day, Attend a Calm Class or Parenting Class and feel great!