Episode 19: The Player Who Needed to Win to Feel Okay

There is a difference between a player who loves to win and a player who needs to win. From the outside, they look the same. Inside, they are operating from completely different foundations. Long explores what the need to win is actually protecting, what losing confirms for a player carrying that weight, and what a coach can — and cannot — do when they recognise it. Not a solution. A different experience of what it means to try and fail inside a relationship that holds.