Episode #190: Putting Your Child's Needs First During Divorce

Rhonda's guest today is Cathy Himlin, Family and Marriage Therapist and court officer in Dependency Court. Rhonda and Cathy take an honest look at parenting through divorce and how the court system doesn't always support what's best for the child. Here is what they cover:   Divorce shifts a parent's role. The developmental stages of a child must be considered. Imbalance in the parenting roles can be financially motivated. Parental Alienation - what it is, and what it isn't. Separate court from time with your child.   About today's guest:    Cathy Himlin is a member of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts and an affiliate member of the San Diego Family Law Bar Association. At the request of the latter, she has developed trainings for attorneys to help them support their clients (both minors and their parents) in Family Law and Dependency Courts. Cathy is the President and CEO of Family Connections Therapy and the Founder of Himlin Consulting, as well as being a court-involved family therapist with over 25 years of experience.   Connect with Cathy:   Website: https://www.himlinconsulting.com/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cathyhimlin   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cathy.himlin.9/   LinkedIn: ​​https://www.linkedin.com/in/cathy-himlin-lmft-lpcc-9aaa0079/ Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women's Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn't just about running the numbers. It's about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.    🌟 Master Your Next Move in Divorce: Watch our FREE Masterclass and learn how to empower your divorce journey with confidence, clarity, and control.   🎥 FREE MASTERCLASS: Get Instant Access     We love putting out great content for you!  Do us a favor?   Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Download and share with a friend who might need to hear these conversations. Leave a positive podcast review - ratings and reviews help others find the show!