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Episode 24: Are you hurting by helping? Lessons from the diary of an over-functioner

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06/11/2019

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In todays episode Lisa dives into what it means to be an over functioner vs an under functioner.  When we over help we can actually do harm to the person we're helping and impact how they navigate life.  If you're exhausted from doing all the things, this episode is a must listen.   June is giveaway month!! Share any episode of The Full Frontal Living™ Podcast and you could win a coaching session with Lisa.  Simply use the #fullfrontallivingpodcast to be entered and each share counts as an entry. Share as many times as you like! Additional entries for every podcast review over on iTunes. To learn more about Lisa's upcoming coaching masterclass simply add your name to the wait list HERE You can apply to coach with Lisa HERE

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