The waves. I'm so wavy. I'm so wavy. It's where I'm going to cut in.
Just using it for you. And welcome back. Sorry. I didn't know you're good.
I was just waiting. Okay. And welcome back to Talking Nonsense. Nonsense.
Why can I never say that word completely? I don't know. I did that last time. Welcome back to Talking Nonsense.
I know I have to literally physically move my hand to talk. Yeah. I'm your host, Kyle, and I'm here with Christopher. And as you already know, we are a podcast that takes different topics each episode and talk our nonsense line.
Hence the name of the show. Can you get off your phone? No, I was playing up my personality. Oh, okay.
Cool. Yeah, because I wanted to keep it on my Safari browser, but I guess I might have closed it by accident or something. Why did you just screenshot it? I know I did though.
I was playing up with screenshots. Oh, yeah. All right. Well, let's just jump into it then, I guess.
So you haven't taken personality tests actually. I did. I did. I didn't want to.
Well, okay. That was my first question. I was just going to ask you. Well, first describe what you think your personality is.
How would you describe your personality? Honest. Okay. That's one element I guess.
You know, honest. Sorry. For our new listeners. You gotta go back and listen to another couple of episodes for you to get that reference.
No, yeah, I'm definitely honest. More, I guess not soft-spoken, but I feel like I'm more deliberate in my opinions. Like I try to formulate them around like, kind of, I try to make informative opinions rather than just kind of giving my two cents just because I feel a certain way about a certain topic. So I guess I'm more informative, I would say.
I definitely quiet for sure. Sorry if they heard that. They did. Yeah, that spiked up.
I'm trying to adjust something. Go ahead. Yeah, more informative, definitely more quiet for sure. What do you mean by informative?
I feel like I think you're the smartest kid in the room. It sounds like to me. In this room, yeah. Okay.
That's debatable. No, I mean, I feel like a lot of people, especially in our age group, tend to just a little see like, I don't know, something from Huffington Post, and be like, oh yeah, that's completely right, rather than kind of back checking both sides of an argument if there is one that's being had or something like that. So you would say you're just more logical than? I mean, yeah, sure, why not?
I wouldn't use the word logical because I can definitely be illogical sometimes. But I think that's when my emotions kick in and I guess my anxiety kicks in. I tend to overanalyze certain situations and then that can just run in different directions and whatnot. I do want to talk about your anxiety later on.
Just a few things I wanted to point out. It's nothing bad. Paul, this is how editing right now. I just wanted to jump in and look like we can say that we don't talk about his anxiety later on in the podcast.
Sorry about that. We just totally forgot. The rest of the show is still great. So keep on listening and we'll just cut right back in.
Everybody's already giving me my anxiety. You're an anxiety. Shut up. Yeah.
That voice is shut up. Okay, so you feel like you're always like that? I think so, but I didn't realize I was like that early on. Okay.
Like going through high school and all that. I was like, that's puberty. Wait, what? No, it's just like, it's a S.P.
Or you're going through a stage. It's a phase. Yeah. No, I definitely like didn't realize it for sure.
I mean, I'm sure I felt that way. I've had like anxious. Were you shy? I would say so.
You were shy as a kid? Yeah. Usually kids don't. Some kids are shy, but like most of the time kids don't get fucked and they're just like do whatever.
You know what I mean? They're not shy. Like when I was like a kid kid? Yeah, like from six to like ten.
Oh, no. I thought I was pretty like outgoing. Okay. But once you I think it might start on maybe seventh or eighth grade was when my shyness started like kick in more kick in more.
Do you think that's because you developed more? I think so. Yeah. I think because I had the sense of self that was formulating like I kind of sort of knew who I was.
Yeah, I mean, it's usually the age where kids start to realize or they put into their minds because it really doesn't matter what people think of you. I think that age group is when they're like, oh crap, I need to be cool or you know, people need to think of me a certain way. Yeah, I definitely wanted to be part of the cool kids. But I never actually knew who that was in terms of like my actual school.
Like I know like who they were specifically. I guess I figured like obviously like the cheerleaders or the jocks were kind of like always the popular ones. But you wouldn't associate yourself? No, I wouldn't.
Why? Because you said you'd want to be part of the cool. I wanted to. But then like just who I hung out with were like other Asian kids.
Like video games. So I mean we all kind of like went into like kind of diverged. I mean, all the cool Asian kids went and joined like the cool secret Asian kid club, which like was just like they all probably like knew each other. And then or you joined like I guess the computer club.
I don't know. I was part of a computer club. I think that was eighth grade stuff. I don't think I was a part of it.
I just ended up hanging out with those kids who ended up making the computer club anyway. So do you feel like maybe because I think for me when I was in that age group to like for sure I wasn't part of the cool kids or well you could say like my group were cool. Cool kids. But I definitely thought there were other kids.
They're like, oh no, they're the cool kids. But why didn't we think that our friends were the cool kids? You know what I mean? Like do you feel like that's part of your personality?
Like maybe your personality had something to do with that? Like I think so I think it's because like a lot of what me and my friends liked or not was funny wasn't really like mainstream. Technically the social norm. Yeah.
So like I guess to equate it everyone loves memes now. Everyone loves like Arthur memes, Spongebob memes. They're just memes in general. But before like memes got to be what they are it was just kind of like you had to be on internet kind of you'd have to be one of those internet kids who just kind of like I guess who knew what I mean was before they were called memes.
So. Um, no and I definitely do think though it is part of my personality that maybe my group friends were the cool ones. I mean I highly doubt that but I never saw it that way though. I never thought I was like, oh I'm part of the in crowd.
The kids should think that way like oh I am the in crowd like my friends are the in crowd. Yeah I mean they should to an extent. Yeah. Why are you saying like I mean some of them should be like no they're not.
That and it's just like I feel like that's I feel like a lot of people in our age group have this sense of narcissism just because they do do sports or they were part of the in crowd be it and it doesn't necessarily have to be sports. Yeah. But because they were part of the so called perceived in crowd it kind of lends to sense of narcissism that I just kind of find annoying. Like you don't want to be that guy who goes to high school reading and be like oh yeah remember back in high school when we did this to so and so.
Yeah. Like are you still like on it you know. Yeah. So you describe your personality as shy informative and what was the other thing?
Honest. Honest right. Honest. No like what are the things like shy informative honest.
That's kind of the main three the big three. Yeah. I would say that like could you give that group of words a name though for the personality. I mean like a scientific name kind of thing.
Yeah I guess or I don't know. Oh well I guess I would say I'm an introvert. Okay. What's an introvert?
So introverts are. The common perception that introverts are quiet shy people who don't want to interact with anyone ever at all. And that's 80% of the time. It's just like we have our moments where we need to like we can be social and everything like that.
But it takes it takes us energy to do that and we do need to recharge. So like I mean I can't be social and talk to people and have a good time but I can't keep doing it weekend after weekend day after day like I'll need my time alone. I do my need time to recharge. So.
Would you say that or do you feel like people around you maybe influenced how you're pretty personally turned out or how you acted in a way? That's a good question. Possibly I would say so. I definitely gravitated towards other people who were also shy so you guys just never talk to each other.
Yeah. No I mean I guess I always gravitated towards people at least the whole informative thing. I've always gravitated towards people who not only like have a sound opinion but who can like kind of back it up both logically and yeah just in a logical way rather than I guess people who are just so loud and just like who yelled aloud or who have a lot of his voice. I've always gravitated towards someone who's always like logical I guess.
Yeah. And I feel like especially in our family there are quite a bit of people in our family who are logical and so I feel like that kind of cultivated that kind of. Who are or aren't? Who are?
Oh who are? And so the people I mean I look up to you or I feel like are logical and anything like that so. Who do you look up to? Don't say me.
Oh I mean I was gonna say you but I know you were. I mean I look up to your brother in a certain sense. Okay. And then just like how would you describe his personality type?
I don't know because like it is more of like I've never actually like talked to him or had a full conversation. But you've seen him at our family parties and stuff. Yeah exactly. So like how would you describe that?
Quiet. Right. Yeah. Very quickly talks.
Yeah. Whereas me on the other hand I'm like the loudest motherfucker in the room. Yeah you're kind of the center of the attention. Yeah.
Well I mean yeah. Yeah you bask in the limelight for sure. I do. I like it a lot.
Wait too much for my comfort. Okay. Which works out because I feel like because you're that way it lets me be me like so I'm like okay quick I was here he can just do what I'm talking about. You might want to do.
Yeah. Okay. I do like to talk a lot but when it comes to for example when we were having that night out at Chuck's and we ordered 12 wings each right. Yes.
But you specifically ordered all drumsticks and then I got a mixture. Yeah. I'm sounding like fat ass right now. 12 wings each.
Yeah. I was kind of bothered that they didn't give me all drumsticks. Yeah so what happened was they brought the plate and ordered the same flavor which was Chuck's special. Half of.
Oh right yeah you you ordered all 12 Chuck's special. I had six Chuck's six garlic. And six garlic. Garlic Parmesan.
Yeah. The lady brought her food over and there were 12 wings on the on one plate and then six garlic Parmesan's and she's like okay here you guys go like here's 12 Chuck's specials and then here's the six Parmesan and we're looking at the 12 Chuck's specials and notice that they were a mixture of wings. They weren't all drumsticks so I was looking at Chris and I was like wait didn't you order all drumsticks and he was like yeah I mean okay well because I ordered six Chuck's specials as well. This is 12 and then I already had my six garlic so where are the other six.
Yeah. And then Chris is like oh yeah you're right and these aren't all drumsticks. I'm like yeah so who's like who's wings are these? Like why did they put all 12 on this one plate?
He's like I don't know. I'm like okay well when she comes back like can you ask her that? Like what do you order it? Because it's your order that's technically missing.
Yeah. No no no no can you please? I'm like oh my god you seriously? There's two reasons for that.
Yeah I know one is because you're fucking shy. Yeah. Yeah you're shy. So three reasons.
Oh okay. What are the other two? I feel like I always hate going to restaurants and like if my order's wrong I'm the time to rather just eat what they give me rather than like say hey this is wrong because it gives me a sense of conflict and I don't like that feeling. Okay.
And she was hell cute. Okay so you were shy. Yeah. So two reasons.
I mean you can separate the two. Yeah. Okay yeah. Two reasons worth depending on who you are.
I don't like it when you say oh I like that you're all going because then you can ask all the questions because I don't like to be the one like yes I like the limelight and you know I like being the center of attention for the most part but at the same time I'm also very conservative like I don't really it's hard to explain like I'd rather have you're an ambiver sure I don't know well that's not what my personality test says but we'll get to that but it's just way different. It's not on the fucking G. Not what I'm saying. Oh I just I feel like for you because you say we're so close and you look up to me and I do consider you like a little brother and why not I just want you finally.
You're just an assignment little like yes to yourself but like I rather have you sort of step up and yeah I'm going to be a man you know that's why I wanted you to ask when you're like no you ask I'm like dude seriously no like fucking grow pair and ask yourself and it's just like I did ask though you actually did ask you actually did ask you can't ask my podcast and big noise bits. I was here today bro. You did end up asking she came back and you're like excuse me I was really proud of you. Oh thank God yes at the same time too I was going to ask for you but when she came back I was eating so I was like oh fuck I had like the wing in my mouth and I was like I didn't notice that.
I was eating you just ask so I was really proud of you for that. It's just like I don't want to always be the one to like ask for other people basically what I'm trying to say like I can and I will if. But it's not your preference. Yeah and it's also like I had a mentality and you know this too like whenever people like ask me to do something or like help other people like to do something when it's technically not my job to do that I'm always like that's not my fucking job like that's their life like are you telling me to tell them what to do and I get my people tell me to do that it's because I can't do that.
I'm a fucking selfish motherfucker who's very narcissistic and very demanding and a great leader. I mean I definitely feel like you can ask for other people but I think it has to be like in a setting where you're comfortable. It's not it's not comfortable like I would have asked for you it's more of really like no you need to do it. You know like I want you.
It's your job. Yeah you know what I mean. Yeah like I just want you to be able to do that to grow some balls and talk so that's why I didn't ask for you. I would have but yeah that's cool.
Yeah but I'm glad you asked yourself so that was good. So going off of like being in that sort of setting do you feel like because it was me you and our cousin Jess and we're all pretty comfortable around each other you know we I feel like act who we actually are when we're on each other. We're a little too comfortable with each other. Yeah that's a different conversation but do you feel like maybe you act a certain way around other people that like your personality changes.
Yeah depending on how close I am to the person depends on how like quiet and shy I'll be. So if I were to meet someone. No go ahead. I'm checking on something else.
Yeah I know so if I were to meet someone and like make a new friend. I mean I would talk to them but I would definitely be way more reserved than I am now when I'm with like you or Jess or Venus just because we're family and we know each other for so long but I guess I don't know because that's kind of a bad example going from comparing friend to family but I do have a close friend of mine who I've known for a while I'll actually still message him on Instagram because that's my only social media. And so like I'll talk to him on there and I'll talk to some of my guy friends on the phone but I won't necessarily do that with some of the other guys that I know in my life just because I haven't really gotten to that point with my friendship with them in that sense. Okay I want to know how you are though like personality wise?
Yeah and like a work setting versus like when you're hanging out with us. So I'm in my work setting and our super fan can tell you this. I'm kind of I'm quite I'm really quiet. Okay rather I don't know if it's really quiet but I definitely don't curse at work.
I definitely have a sense of- You don't curse here. I curse here more than I do at work. Okay but even when you do curse here you literally sense it yourself. Like you won't say the full word.
I know right. Trust me I have clips. I got the audio recordings. No so in that and also in a network I'm definitely more I guess I'm more of a professional.
I'll use more professional words or at least for a reason. So you talk differently. Yeah and then I won't be as relaxed maybe. What's funny is I guess in my mind and I think amongst other people too and in my friend group we usually call that like word personality like the white personality like your white guy comes out you know what I mean because we have I have a supervisor right now who's not like he's Asian and when he talks to us like normally he talks he's kind of he's whole of funny and he not that he talks ghetto but he you know he doesn't talk professionally so much around when he's just talking to us.
He'll be like so dude yesterday right like I thought you didn't like bro right he talked like that like literally he'll be in a conversation with us talking and then his work phone would ring and he'll see it be like hello this is blah blah blah how can I help you you know and I'm just like wow his whiteness just came out. So would you like consider that your work personality? Oh yeah for sure. We're so racist but you know.
And speaking about like personality types you know when I'm with our super fan. If we're off work purposes like my work personality completely disappears and it's just I'm having conversation shooting the shit yeah being regular but as soon as we get back to like our like onto the work location like my personality definitely takes on the white guy. Yeah it's funny too because I'm the same way too when I'm at work when I'm talking about coworkers I'm talking how I talk to you. Yeah like I just shoot the shit with them.
But then when another coworker who I don't really know like ask me either like a work question and she's like oh hey how's your day going it's going great sir how are you? You know like I totally changed. It changes yeah. When I'm at work sometimes like I'm on the phone with my friend like because I'm just walking around and like we're talking on the phone and she laughs sometimes too when I ever get interrupted by people that I'm like walking around the office with because I'll be talking to him like yeah you know what that's hella funny haha and all of a sudden someone asked me a question and she could tell when I'm talking to someone else because my voice totally changes.
I was like yeah how you're hella fucking funny dude and then like someone's like hey can you tell me this? I'm like oh yeah sure what you want to do is you want to take this and you want to do that. And then she'd be like you're talking to someone aren't you. I'm like trying to like tell me.
Yeah I'm talking to someone. Hold on. And as you can see the emergency exits are on the left and right side of the plane. Yeah you're gonna want to take your bags and move them to the.
No but you know what I mean and then like they'll go away and I'll get into the room and be like God fucking damn it. Does that bother you? Knowing that your personality changes when you're around certain people or like when you're at work and you know you interrupted and then your work person like comes out over on top of your own. I don't think it bothers me per se like really I'm the type to not give a fuck so much as to what people think about me.
No that's true. So when I do switch personalities at work and people will like catch me on it like you're totally different when you're talking to someone else and be like yeah I'm not gonna be fucking touching in front of them of course I'm gonna be different. Like I'll tell them like yeah I know I'm different. I know and I don't think it really bothers me.
I think when people try to say like no I don't have a different personality like I'm totally the same it's like bro you're totally not. That's what bothers me is when they can't admit it. Oh they can't. They're just like wow you're totally too face or whatever it's like oh no we're talking about I'm totally the same it's like you're clearly not.
Like just admit it. I admit like yeah I'm totally too face. I'm like six faces. Like because I'll act well for the most part I'll act a different way when I'm hanging out with my brother or sister and my mom or like when I'm hanging out with you guys but or like if I'm hanging out with my friend Peter and then my other co-workers I'm totally different amongst all those groups and I know that but now they know the real you.
I don't know. I think it's Japanese culture they say we have three personalities one when you're by yourself one amongst your friends and the one amongst your family and it's never. I feel like there's a good horror story in there. Probably.
None of them are ever the same and stuff like that and I think they say that no one ever sees your true personality. That's neat. Right? That's totally neat.
I agree unfortunately that makes me sad though when I agree to that. Do you like going off of that and do you feel like do you know since they say you have a personality when you're by yourself like a different personality by yourself. Do you feel like that you don't have to say anything because maybe you are different when you're by yourself but do you feel like that's definitely different from when you are with other people? Yeah.
So I don't know if I ever told you this well we talked about it briefly when we were when I first just came back and out the day I was having a party. You're gay. Everyone else already knows that that's fine. Oh cool.
No. Congratulations. I'm a part of myself back in high school. So when I'm definitely alone at least for a while like I definitely was more sad.
And that's a personality right? Yeah. I feel like it's not so much I wouldn't want to attribute depression or sadness as a personality type just because that's kind of a negative thing and I feel like I don't want to be that way but I mean it's definitely characteristic and like in all honesty that's something we do have to kind of recognize. Yeah.
But that being said though like when I am by myself now I'm definitely more introspective and I definitely do think about. You think about a lot of the things and you act different. Yeah. Like I think about like the grand scheme of things and my grand and my I think about like my placement amongst all of God's creatures and everything like that.
So I'm definitely more spiritual when I'm alone. I feel like yeah. What about you? When I'm by myself I'm definitely like.
Not like that. No. No. I do.
I think the same thing like I'll think about what I'm doing in my life like where I'm at now and like what the fuck am I doing sort of thing. And I think just recently now because before you know I'm not an only child like you technically are right so I was always surrounded by other people. Yeah. Even when I was here at the house right and I've kind of always been like with other people for most of my life.
Yeah. And just now I think is when I sort of felt the most alone when I was alone because there's no one really like when I'm at home during like let's say middle school to high school I have my brother because he was still there right. Right. So I wasn't technically like even if my parents weren't there like you could say like oh we're alone but I'm not like my brother's there right.
Oh you're never physically alone. Yeah I was never physically alone. And even when I went to off to college I always had roommates. Yeah.
So I was never like physically alone. Like now yeah I'm still living you know when I'm on but like she's usually gone most of the time she works night shift and so do I. And you know it's just us. So now when I am alone like actually physically alone I feel like not to say that I'm gay because I don't think anyone could really like gain depression or anything like that.
Yeah. It's sort of like once you know if you have it you have it kind of thing. Sure I mean that's a whole set for topic. But anyways but I definitely feel like I'm not as happy as I was before basically.
I think also with the stuff that's happened with my dad my anxiety has definitely like shot up. Like I was never anxious before or had any like panic attacks and stuff like that. And now like it's definitely more frequent I think that's why. So going off to that day and I guess my next question for you was going to be since you know we can't have different personalities and that they can change like why do you think they can't.
I think it's like a I think honestly I think it's a biological response. Like I'm definitely honestly like if I'm with people who I don't know and like I'm getting ragged on either through it just being you know when friends just rag on each other. Honestly sometimes that does kind of like bother me especially when I'm with people who don't really know me. And I do get defensive I don't really act out on it.
I don't really verbally get defensive or even act in a certain way. I'll try to like play it off and I'll try to embrace it but you know to an extent like I do get defensive though and I think your personality switches just because of a biological reaction like the company you're with that's a factor and who it is and your formulation like your opinions about them all that comes into play and you kind of like engage it and how to you gauge how you react you gauge how to judge like how to what to say when to say it what's appropriate to say that sort of thing and I've always hated this like when people say like oh don't judge me and it's like whether you say that or not like they're gonna judge you. Like people said me don't judge me but I need to tell you yeah of course I want to judge you I'm totally judging you I'm just not gonna tell you I'm gonna judge you. Oh when I say only God can judge me it's like I know you have other 50,000 people looking at you they can judge you.
Yeah and it's like honestly I wish more people would understand it's a biological thing. It's in our brain to make a judgment that's how we've survived as a human being as a species for so long because we have that ability to make judgment. Yeah. Um we're also just quick side I know we're gonna definitely have to do personality part two.
Why? I feel like there's a lot of good content here that I want to delve into. Oh yeah for sure. We will then you come up with your questions because these are all my questions and actually my friend has a few questions for you too she wanted to ask you just to she wants to know I guess you kind of already answered it first when her first question was just like do you feel like personalities can change daily?
Daily? Yeah I mean to a certain level yeah I don't think a whole personality can change daily because if they can that's like they should be in that Amnet Shyamalan movie like that one. Oh. Oh.
First one on break again. Sorry. We lost a bunch of fans just now but yeah I know like the guy from James Mackle his character and he had split something like that would be kind of intense. I'm sure there's like personality I don't know if I want to use the word disorder I don't know if that's like politically correct or right but I feel like that's kind of intense but yeah to a certain level yeah personality can change on the daily.
Do you think it's a bad thing? Depends I would say. I mean there's just too many factors to like really name them all but I guess though too that I would bring up maybe is like the purpose on why it's changing and what's causing to change. Okay.
I mean I feel like those are two very big factors that people need to consider especially if they are aware that the person I was changing it's like at least for me I would want to know why it's changing and where it's going to take me and that might be part that might partly be because of my informative nature but I mean I wouldn't want to like do it blindly. Yeah. So do you? What I think personalities can change daily yeah we have to differentiate though what they think their personality is changing on because it could be just one day you're happy.
The next day you're sad because I was going to be my next question. Do you feel like, so you know how actually earlier like you said when you were, can you or no yeah I can't you were sad. I'm like well would you consider that personality? No I consider that characteristic.
So it's just like maybe not the whole personality is changing maybe just one day you're not feeling good. Yeah. The next day you're feeling better. Like just like that and I don't think it's a bad thing.
I think it makes you, if you're self aware of that I think that's good you know at least you know like oh today I'm feeling sad. And maybe you should figure out why if you don't know why and if you don't that's okay too. You are just feeling sad like just because we can't just be on those days. I've definitely had like a lot of those days where I'm just like totally out of it.
I'm just like I can't. I don't know what it is. Just don't want to deal with anyone. Yeah.
I just don't want to deal with anyone. Like I don't think anyone can bring me out of this right now because I just want to like not like sometimes too I'll try to make myself happy by watching things I know and make me happy but even those like won't make me happy. Like what the fuck. Yeah like that always bugs me.
Cause I'll try to do that too. I'll try to watch videos I've liked before in that maiden laugh. Yeah. It's just like I always get a little bit more sadder to you when they don't make me happy.
Like wow I'm really sad today. It's like damn I gotta dig deep. Where are you having this shit? Tification.
I'm out. Do say this. And then her other question for you was do you think opposite personalities attract or like conflict with each other or cause conflict sorry. Both but like I think I'm a misconception that a lot of people have and I've had this misconception too is that conflict is always a negative thing.
And I did mention I have this fear of conflict but I feel like having some conflict in life is okay. It's okay to disagree essentially. Yeah. I have an opinion that might not necessarily be the same as someone else's or even likable.
You hear that guy so if you're wrong who cares. Cause you're wrong. But I mean like what's the question I'm sorry. Do you think opposite personalities attract or cause conflict?
So they can't cause conflict but they also because they cause conflict I think they can also attract. Cause I feel like at least for me I want to want to date someone who has my exact personality. Right you guys would just never talk. Yeah.
You would literally just be like hey. Yeah. You said that today. Yeah.
Me too. Like you would love that. I wouldn't roommate cause then I would never have to talk to them. But like if I'm in a relationship with like a girl it would be nice if she I guess not where to like be completely opposite of who I am cause you do obviously want to have some similarities.
Yeah. But I think it'd be nice to have someone to push you to be a bit different or push you outside of your comfort zone. Just a little bit which is I think important when you have a significant other relationship. Yeah.
So I think that's why we get along so well is because we are kind of opposite. I hate you though. But okay. Okay.
Well I mean I don't hate you. Like it bounces out like you know. You definitely push me to be more outgoing but kind of to do my job so I speak to grow okay. Yeah.
And like I feel like at least whenever it rises I can offer some insight that you don't have and you might be able to take that back like okay maybe I do need to adjust some things or so. Like when I said it was warm I said timid but I meant temperate. I kept saying timid and you're just like um what? Like timid bro.
It's like timid right now. Like you mean temperate and like fuck. Yeah you're right. Yeah like that.
And it's like running joke. Yeah. Sensely. I came back.
Because we were talking about it. She asked me like oh what are you guys doing this week for your episode? I said we're doing personalities. Oh that's awesome.
And then she asked me those two questions like you should ask this to your cousin okay. And then she goes I want you to answer them right now too. Like what do you think? And I was just like you got to wait for the podcast.
No he's. But then she got mad so I told her I thought. I was waiting for that. I was like so would you tell her that.
Yeah. So I did tell her. I told her yeah I think both the kind of track and they can cause conflict and I gave her specific examples. I was like what mean her we're totally different.
Well we're not totally different. You guys are in the same circle. Same circle. Same pod.
Same Pete no wool no we're actually really different yeah, yeah, she's more of the I'm very emotional right like I'm very like No, I am trust. I'm very emotional. Okay. It comes to like Not decision making but when it comes to music examples for example if someone Where did asking you like oh man?
I don't know what to do because I'm having trouble with this or that I'd be like oh like I would totally feel for that and like oh like let's figure this out blah blah blah I'm like maybe you got to do this right? Yeah, you would offer a solution. Yeah her on the other hand would be like shed dude That sucks She's not exactly like that, but like opposite Yeah, but we I think we compliment each other really well Yeah, and I think she pushes me to be more like she's more realistic basically You know she's not one to think so emotionally because she knows like she can't let her emotions controller Which is like a great thing like if you could do that that's amazing because for me like I definitely let my emotions Control me for the most part which is like it's hard and like sucks So that's why I feel like me and her get along very well because when I do get like hell emotional She's gonna want to be like slap me out of you like listen here bitch. Like here's the reality of it get over it Right yeah, but she's sensitive to that like she doesn't an asshole per se yeah, she's not an asshole, but You fucking dick She's not though, but and then the other example where like they do cause conflict I told her kind of you on the bus.
I said it down his ex they were completely oh, yeah, no We were yeah, she was hella-nogative hell out going he totally wasn't and it just didn't work out It was working out for a little bit, but then like I got tired. Yeah It's just too much. Yeah, it's too much and I think I told it to like oh no I did not tell you this I'll say this with a podcast it works what needs to happen if you're trying to I don't know if you're trying to ask me for like relationship wise like if two people were trying to get together and they're totally different personalities Like would it work? I think it would if both people knew that they had different personalities and were like willing to do except that and changed Yeah, and help each other out, you know, I mean like me and her like I know she's like that So I know sometimes when either she gets upset she just wants to have the realistic answer and not be so like oh, it's okay Well, you know, I mean and then she knows you sometimes when I'm upset she can't be like get the fuck over it Yeah, you know, but she will tell me like well, okay, that's fine.
Well, you're sad, but really get over it. Yeah, you know There's a way to gauge it. Yeah, I think with you and your ex you were just too scared to tell her like shut up Yeah, I should just would not shut up. Yeah, like she didn't realize.
Oh fuck. I'm talking about it I could just I could get away with like filler words that would just keep the conversation going Yeah, I would really really wow cool. No way. What can you be that?
And it was just like you'd like I kind of looped it in a way. So it definitely that you don't you know, yeah Yeah, I feel it so let's go ahead and dive in then you took a personality test I told Chris here because this episode was my episode this week and I wanted him to take a personality Personality test to see what he was what'd you get? I got the advocate personality type advocate, huh? Yeah, what is the Description no is it ENF I An FJ INFJ yeah, okay, and then so I don't know if it means anything But I got like because when it shows you like your personality type like advocate or whatever it gives you like a parenthesis Like in the little letters.
So I got INFJ comma minus a slash minus T. I don't know if I mean I don't know I didn't get nothing like that. I don't know if I didn't get that at all. Wow, so so what's it what's the statement?
So it says the advocate personality type is very rare ladies Well, I keep really like see if that's what they want Is very rare. Yes, okay, okay, making up less than 1% of the population But they nonetheless leave their mark on the world. Sorry my screen time down. Oh my goodness As members of the diplomat role group advocates have an important sense of idealism and morality But what sets them apart is that they are not idle dreamers But people capable of taking concrete steps to realize their goals and making a lasting positive impact Advocates tend to see helping others as their purpose in life But while people with this personality type can be found engaging Rescue efforts and doing charity work the real passion is to get to the heart of the issue So that people need not be rescued at all.
Okay, that makes actually a lot of sense because you are the type to like whenever Our cousin is having a problem. She's telling you a story. You're always like well, okay Well, maybe like you always ask questions like okay Well, then what did he do after or like how does that make you feel like you definitely dive deep into it? And I always find it so funny It's a good thing But I just find it so funny because no offense So when you say it like that sometimes to me because in my mind because of my personality type when I'm listening to that story I'm just like I'll give a fuck you know I'm just like I don't care that he hurts you like that sucks like I'm gonna be there for you and all the fuck So what you know, yeah, but then when I hear you like ask the questions and try to figure out what happened I'm always feel like like I just think guys think the same thing sort of like we're both like fuck it who cares right?
Yeah, so when you ask I just be like what being fake is fuck Like it just comes off as fake when you ask it Yeah, sometimes it is not gonna lie and I feel like just because of how my voices sometimes do when I just say shit Like you can't come off as fake. Yeah, like Again, not to throw you under the bus or anything Those are times when you do talk or like when you're trying to be I guess authoritative towards certain people it doesn't come off as that Oh, yeah, no, it definitely doesn't. Yeah, it comes off as sarcasm or like no, not even sarcasm like yeah, no offense But it comes off as like pussy like It doesn't feel authoritative This is the part where I throw you down No, it's like like for example again when let's say our nieces doing something bad right, you know when they start pissing you off You know I could get real fucking stern with my voice. Yeah, hey stop doing that like how many times I tell you but then with you You're like stop it now.
Hey now stop relax. Yeah, you know, I mean Yeah, it's just like do put put some oomph in that stop it out Chris. Come on. Tell it to stop So because you can be angry.
Oh, yeah, I can't yeah I have that voice. I've had those angry. Yeah, and it's scary But I think you need to use it more. Yeah, like in a good way not to like start fucking being mean to people but yeah, no Just be more more Yeah, yeah, yeah enough about that.
That's how I mean I got my personality type was the protagonist I can see that. Yeah, I got Ian E and FJ That's he didn't give you like oh, I'll give you dash T. Yeah, okay. I don't know what that means though No, you know, I had no idea But basically my personality type or this is making some really narcissistic.
This is the personality test. Okay, I don't believe this that much I mean I kind of do but okay It says protagonists are natural born leaders. I don't think so. I mean I don't feel like I am but full of passion Christmas.
Yes Ladies forming around 2% of population only 2% They're often sometimes or there are often times our politicians are coaches and our teachers reaching out and spong others to achieve Do good in the world with a natural confidence that begets influence protagonists take a great deal of pride and joy in guiding others to work in their community Oh I'm trying others to work together to improve themselves and their community. Sorry. I read that wrong. Yeah, I can definitely see that You definitely are a natural born leader though for sure.
Okay. Well, I mean This is why I say like I am outgoing and I will ask the questions that need to be like if someone would be like Can you ask them? I guess I will do that but for me personally if I'm This is why I kind of struggle to and like in high school is because I was always so scared to ask for myself Like I didn't want to sound like the dumb one because I had to be like wait what you know Like I always wanted to be like no, I get it. Yeah, I always waited for someone else be like How'd you get that?
I'm like yes, thank God you asked that cuz I don't get it either You know, that's why like when you told me to like ask the lady I didn't want to look like the dumb one like like bro was my wings and she like those are your wings You know, okay, I didn't want to sound like the dumb one that's why I was like no you need to ask It's more like yes, I wish I help you but also I was trying to avoid looking stupid Yeah So that's why like as a leader yes and no at work at least when I'm like working with my other co-workers I definitely do have the tendency to be like are you hit this building? I'll get this building we will convene or we'll reconvene here Like I'm always the one to try to think of like the fastest way. Yeah, yeah, you know and like be the ones to suggest doing that Yeah, at the same time though. I'll wait till someone else be like so what you guys think we should do and be like okay now I could step it, you know, I won't be like hey, we should do this because I don't want us at the same time to sound like I'm bossing boss.
Yeah, not their boss. We're a team Yeah, so I'll wait a little bit so somebody like I think we should do this and that's great, but here's how we're gonna do it No, I feel like I feel like that's part of a leadership quality is knowing one to take charge Mm-hmm and knowing when to let you know other people kind of get their ideas out because you get a different opinion And everything like that so I feel like that's a leadership in you though is because you're able to gauge that okay? Yeah, that makes sense. Did you happen to screenshot like the percentages of what I Took a video of that video screen recording.
Oh, okay. Did you're scrolling through? Yeah? So you're obviously more introverted than extroverted right yes because I was 71% extraverted 29% introverted.
What'd you get? I was oh, oh, this is for oh, Jesus. Oh my god. Oh, Lord.
I got 93% introverted Yeah, so what about the intuitive and observant? Wait, we pause it intuitive and observant. I was 52% intuitive 48% observant. Oh 71% intuitive 29.
Wow I just realized I was the same as extroverted introverted This is the nature one's funny because this is why I say I'm hell emotional because there's you know The nature says this straight determines how we make our decisions and cope with emotions and I got 25% thinking 75% feeling really yeah, I got 28% thinking 72% feeling oh really yeah, I thought you'd be more thinking yeah Well, so did you get for tactics 79% judging 64% judging 36% prospecting this trait so the tactics is this trait reflects our approach to work planning and decision-making So when it says I'm saying 79% judging was that technically mean judge all the time bro? You need relax. No, but this is this trait reflects how we approach like work planning and decision-making So I think going back to your story about when you tell people like oh you hit this building all hit that building will reconvene This time I think that's the judgment like is because you're able to gauge How efficient everyone's going to be okay, so I mean I think in that in my mr. I do judge people Yeah, would you give our identity?
I don't think I just reenjotted that part. Oh wait identity. Yeah. Yeah, yeah I didn't get that.
Oh, okay, but anyways going off of That since that was a personality test There's those people that really believe in the zodiac signs as a way to describe the personality like oh you're such a cancer Or you're such a scorpion. That's why we can't be friends. Yeah, like what's your what's your thought on the zodiac signs? Okay, first and foremost, let me just begin by saying because shology is not real science Okay, you just hurt a lot of people.
I'm just saying it's not you can't replicate that you can't replicate data like in any other scientific field that's been proven right is Legitimate size you can't do that with astrology. So for all you astrologers out there, you're fake But no, I mean I can't appreciate the interest in it. I I do read though. Like what are you?
Which is a Gemini? Okay, I'm gonna say about Gemini's so that we have like two like we were the twins I guess we're like have different personalities or like we're bipolar or something. Oh, yeah, like I run hot and cold like yeah Like I've definitely you know me like I've always had someone makes me mad enough. I definitely can get angry.
Yeah No, man, I feel like that a lot of that is I guess true based on the number of people making that same like oh, yeah I can relate to that kind of aspect. I Wouldn't solely base my friendships or relationships around it though Like I want a day to grow like if she's like a Libra I don't know if Gemini and Libra is their compatible or whatever. Yeah, but if they weren't I would be like oh, you're a Libra Oh, we can't be together right like I mean, but do you feel like I guess you can't do the answer I'm just gonna say like so do you think they're kind of at least on the spectrum when they try to describe personalities? See the first I want to say yes, but at the same time I'm gonna say no just because I know a lot of like I guess astrology readings or whatever horoscopes or people who write them They use a lot of barham statements And I don't know if you know what those are but they're like these type of statements they're ordered in such a way I think they're I think that's what it is or it's defined as but it's pretty much essentially barham statements make make you think Oh, yeah, that's applying to me right now in my life Yeah, when it may or may not actually be true Mm-hmm and so what which which is funny is that you brought this up is because so I'm it one of our cousins friends I have to believe her name.
Yeah, I don't know if she listens, but I would okay. Oh, thank you But she's like she's hella into like astrology. Okay. She's like, oh, what's your inside?
What's your air sign? Oh You're acting that way. Oh, it's because you're like this is your sign and we're in this type of like Astrological season or some shit. It's like you do know all that shit is fake, right?
Whatever so I mean she was coming into that shit and at first it's like kind of cool like oh she does as a hobby Which is she sure I'm saying oh, I'm gonna be an astrologer. Yeah. Oh my god this bit So hey, and bro, no, I know I should but I mean I guess it was shit. Hey.
Oh, yeah, I shouldn't hate She was just so I don't know she's just so and though the what I guess like kind of going back to personalities Her personality really reminded me of those types of people who was like I would equate it to like the flat earth or personality type Where if they do enough research that like supplies their own idea like all because I found all these like resources that prove that the earth You feel like she's self-centered. Yeah, okay, so I mean in my earth is too. Yeah, I don't like that earth or personality Okay, just so dumb people Yeah Anyways, yeah See for me like I yeah same thing I do and I don't believe in the zodiac signs I mean, yeah, okay, they're fake sure whatever but and most of it probably is just like placebo like we're reading it Oh my god, that's totally me. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, but I don't know It's just like it could be that but then the same time too.
It's like well. I think it goes back to our last episode with the stereotypes It's observation. Maybe they just whoever started it like just started realizing they needed a way to describe certain people So they're just like you're always this way. We're gonna call you Leo You know, I mean, so I think it's like off of observation Like maybe that's why it seems sort of accurate is because you know, we read up on Gemini's like oh, yeah The two-faced, you know, you're a Gemini other two cousins are demonized and I see it with my own two eyes I'm like yeah, they kind of are too faced.
Yeah, you have like two different personalities, right? You're either hot or cold like on whatever day and for me because I was born I was technically supposed to be born July 21st But my selfish ass was like no, I'm a wait 10 days here. I come world So I was 10 days late So I was born July 31st and according to the zodiac signs if I was born on the 21st I would have been a cancer for my zodiac sign But since I was born on the 31st I'm a Leo and sometimes when I because sometimes I'll read them fun, right when I read both of them both of them kind of describe me Yeah, so I when people ask me. Oh, what sign are you always sound like almost you like you're a what?
I'm like my cancer in a Leo you can't be both. I'm like, it's not real bitch. It's like yeah But like for Leo's they say like it says right here. I'm reading it right now people born under the sign of Leo are natural born leaders Yeah, you know they're dramatic true creative true self-confident When it comes to certain things sure Difficult to resist able to achieve anything they want to in in well, oh to in an area of life they commit to oh cool But yeah, so again based off observation We have another cousin who's a Leo and they also say Leo's are very self-centered and Sistic always about themselves.
That's why like whenever we see that cousin who's a Leo and we observe it She's definitely like that. Yeah, I always get concerned about myself too I'm not like that right cuz it says I'm a Leo. I'm not that bad. Am I you are Narcissist you can't be a bit of a narcissist, but It's not it's not like in a vanity kind of way Does like literally our cousin who is the Leo Fuck you know my personality already I guess I think you're your narcissism or you're like self-fade your self-interest It's not in a vanity kind of way like it is with our cousin who takes pictures or is like kind of does it in a material kind of way I think yours is in more of a logical way like once you prove to yourself that you're right either through like logic or just Points of observation.
It's hard to convince you otherwise Okay, yeah, so I feel like you're already being hard to convince right now. Yeah, right I feel like once you it's like once you accept your own mind once you think it yeah You will continue to believe it regardless if anyone can provide a realistic valid argument against as to why you're wrong or any kind Damn what the fuck sorry don't mind that guys wait hold on and we're back So let me just explain a little bit about that cousin We were just talking about so for her she is very sort of self-centered literally there's this one time we were all hanging out and she Had just got her nails done, okay? Oh my god. I'm sorry cousin if you listen to this, you know, I still love you She listens she's so far behind it, so it's okay, but once you get to this point no hard feelings She'll be over it yeah So she just got her nails done and she was we're all hanging out saying all the couches, you know chilling mine your own business And we all noticed her looking at her nails and just admiring them right and we look at it Okay, we get it like your nails are cool.
She's like yeah, I'm just like look they're so great right? We're like yeah, it's really nice. Okay cool. I like them and then we go about our business not even five minutes later You look at her again, and she's doing the same thing and we're like we get it.
They're nice like I just like them Like they're really nice right? It was like oh my god Yeah, so she's in that aspect. She's very vain. Yeah, yeah, yeah, and then our I was about to say our other cousin the but she's Gemini never mind.
I was looking to say she's also narcissistic too I can be a pickup tree. Do you think certain personalities can be picked up? I think you can hang out with certain people You definitely turn into them. Oh, yeah.
Yeah, oh yeah Oh, you're your group of friends is a reflection of who you are and vice versa. Mm-hmm. Yeah, no Definitely because there's certain people that I used to hang out with like a middle school and stuff that weren't necessary the best of people and I was acting a certain Hard to believe no, I think I was just I hang out with that. Yeah, no Hard to leave but I was like acting bad.
Sorry mom and dad. I was acting bad in that sense too. Really? What'd you do?
Stuff I don't want to talk about It's same tune for a bonus podcast. So Once like I moved away from them and started hanging with different people my personality changed Yeah, so since you know you definitely like hung out with a different kind of kind of start acting I guess better you find it annoying when people like oh I don't know I was gonna go with this. Yeah killing time you're doing Does that bother you though that like you like knowing that you're different because of your friends and everything like that Does that make you feel more fake at all or no? No, you can't already ask me this question If I think because I know I have different personalities doesn't bother me.
No, I told you fuck Plain simple thing we can end there. Yeah, yeah good good episodes. Yeah, I think the content Yeah, me too, so we'll definitely have a part two maybe not anytime soon. I don't think no I want to do it back I want to space it out.
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