Episode 245: You're Not In Love With Him. You're In Love With His Potential.

In this episode of Unf*ck Your Relationships, I’m unpacking why so many women fall in love with potential instead of the person actually in front of them. You didn’t fall for who he was, you fell for who you believed he could become. And then you spent months or years trying to close the gap between the two, investing in the version of him you hoped would eventually show up.We talk about the fixer pattern, why being drawn to emotionally unavailable men often comes from a deeper belief that love has to be earned, and how focusing on someone else’s potential keeps you from being fully seen and chosen as you are. If you’ve ever stayed in a relationship believing someone would eventually become the person you needed them to be, this episode will challenge that pattern and show you what it looks like to start choosing reality instead of possibility.WORK WITH MICHELLE:Join THE CONNECTED WOMAN, a course for the woman who wants to go from anxious & self-abandoning in relationships to secure, confident and unf*ckwithable: https://michellepanning.com/the-connected-womanSign up for THE EXPERIENCE, an exclusive 12-month mentorship experience where you go all in on YOU (aka, you get direct access to me as a mentor, access to every offer I run over your year, and MORE): https://michellepanning.com/the-experienceCONNECT WITH MICHELLE:Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/michellepanningWebsite: http://www.michellepanning.com