Episode 252 Relentless Success with Todd Stottlemyre (Part 1)

John talks with Todd Stottlemyre — former Major League Baseball (MLB) pitcher, 3-time World Series Champion, high-performance coach, entrepreneur, speaker, investor, advisor, author of the books Relentless Success: 9-Point System for Major League Achievement and The Observer: A Modern Fable on Mastering Your Thoughts & Emotions, proud husband and father of five. Listen to this episode to learn more: [00:00] - Intro [01:22] - Todd's bio [05:16] - Todd's family and background in baseball [08:57] - Lessons learned from baseball legends [11:33] - Pressure to match his father's legacy [14:43] - Why shielding kids from failure backfires [15:50] - The value of struggle in growth [18:04] - Story about Todd's daughter proving herself in business [22:54] - Happiness vs Joy [24:08] - Winning the World Series with the Blue Jays [26:53] - Building a championship team [30:09] - Applying a champion's mindset to business and leadership [35:07] - Dropping ego for team success [38:36] - The Golden Rule: Love others as yourself [39:45] - Todd's experiences with adversity and how it affected his baseball performance [42:08] - Lessons from mindset coach Harvey Dorfman [45:30] - The Championship Statement [48:40] - Outro NOTABLE QUOTES: "If you're going to dig ditches, the only thing I want for you is to become the best ditch digger you can possibly become." "You can either be Daddy's little princess, or you can be boss, but you can't be both." "In the last hours with my father, I promise you, we didn't talk championships. We weren't talking baseball. We weren't talking about, you know, money or anything else. It was love, and it was about being in the moment." "Failing is important. We actually need to fail because that's when the opportunity to learn presents itself. You don't learn a thing by doing it right. You only have an opportunity to learn when you do it wrong." "If you don't know what you want to do, and you don't know where you want to go, when life throws you a set of circumstances, you're going to get buried in those circumstances." "What happens when the world throws you a set of circumstances that are out of your control, and Mommy and Daddy can't make you happy any longer? You actually have to go through it, learn from it, and figure out how to move forward. So, let the kids learn that emotional IQ." "The name on the front of the uniform is a lot more important than the name on the back of the uniform." "Championships are won through getting uncomfortable, growing, and coming together as a team." "If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, take others with you." "Today, we have a reaction problem, and if we can teach people to respond versus react, you'd see a much different outcome." "Love your neighbor as if it were yourself. If we could all follow the Golden Rule, wouldn't we have world peace?" "Words are shallow; actions are deep." "The beautiful thing about your first step is you might learn not the 'how to,' but it's a lesson, and then it continues to move you forward." "The reward is the process." USEFUL RESOURCES: https://toddofficial.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddstottlemyre/ https://www.instagram.com/todd.stott https://www.facebook.com/todd.stottlemyre https://x.com/ToddStottlemyre https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKJCB98_92Se0jK08SdmuRw Relentless Success: 9-Point System for Major League Achievement (https://a.co/d/gZU8r8I)  The Observer: A Modern Fable on Mastering Your Thoughts & Emotions (https://a.co/d/dy4tSSW)  CONNECT WITH JOHN Website - https://thejohnhulen.com    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnhulen    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/johnhulen    X - https://x.com/johnhulen    LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnhulen    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLX_NchE8lisC4NL2GciIWA    EPISODE CREDITS Intro and Outro music provided by Jeff Scheetz - https://jeffscheetz.com/