Episode 263: When I Was Asian

Communication is a three-way street—and sometimes it leads us straight into hilarious misunderstandings. In this episode of Mindset Matters More, Andy shares a funny (and slightly embarrassing) family story about how a misheard word had her convinced she was part Chinese for three years. From cultural mix-ups to everyday miscommunications, Andy dives into how words get lost in translation, why we hear what we want to hear, and how unchecked assumptions can shape our identities and relationships.But this isn’t just about laughs—it’s about the power of communication, perception, and acceptance. What happens when someone’s words shake your spirit? Why do we let others’ comments hold so much weight? And how can we strengthen our boundaries so that feedback empowers us instead of breaking us down?If you’ve ever been misunderstood, misheard someone, or realized you’ve been telling yourself the wrong story, this episode will have you reflecting, laughing, and rethinking the way you communicate.✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode: • Why communication is never as simple as saying words and being understood. • How preconceived notions and personal filters shape our reality. • The difference between taking things personally vs. using them as feedback. • Why acceptance and self-love are key to handling words that hurt.⸻🔗 Links & Resources:📖 Writing for My Life (Andy’s Book): https://a.co/d/6wkk1mO▶️ YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@coachandyhoffer📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachandyhoffer🌐 Website: https://andyhoffercoaching.com