Episode 273: Monica Tanner on her book Bad Marriage Advice (May 11, 2026)

In this episode of The Catholic Bookworm, Kiki Latimer interviews Monica Tanner on her book Bad Marriage Advice: Debunking Myths That Will Make You Miserable and What To Do Instead.What if the marriage advice you’ve been following is quietly sabotaging your relationship?From “never go to bed angry” to “happy wife, happy life,” couples are bombarded with clichés that sound wise but often leave them feeling disconnected, resentful, or questioning whether lasting love is even possible.In Bad Marriage Advice, relationship and intimacy coach Monica Tanner debunks the myths that hold couples back and replaces them with clear, compassionate strategies for real communication, lasting connection, and renewed intimacy. Drawing on over two decades of lived experience, a thriving coaching practice, and a faith-centered perspective, Tanner offers a refreshingly honest roadmap to creating the kind of marriage that feels safe, passionate, and built to last. Whether days or decades into your relationship, you’ll learn how to: Communicate without mind-reading or walking on eggshellsRekindle emotional and physical intimacyNavigate conflict with confidence and compassionGrow together instead of growing apart Based on the fifteen most common pieces of advice couples are given, this book offers practical alternatives that work in the real world, not just in theory. This is more than advice -- it’s a lifeline. With warmth, clarity, and a coach’s insight, Monica Tanner helps couples move from frustration and survival to connection, joy, and a deeply fulfilling marriage. Happily Ever After isn’t a myth; it’s a choice. And it starts now. https://www.amazon.com/Bad-Marriage-Advice-Debunking-Miserable/dp/B0FQ46HG3S/