Episode 3 | How Faith Showed Up When Infertility Broke Us Down

Starting a family didn’t look anything like we expected, and the early chapters of our story were filled with detours, hard conversations, and a whole lot of quiet heartbreak as we walked through infertility and IVF. In this episode, you’ll hear what we learned about the emotional weight of infertility, how it affected our relationship, and the small moments that helped us keep going. We talk honestly about the shame and confusion that crept in, and how faith slowly pulled us back toward hope. We share the real side of IVF, from the appointments that drained us to the tiny miracles that reminded us why we kept fighting. You’ll hear how we navigated the stress, the decisions, and the moments that tested us more than we expected. We also talk about why staying connected as a couple mattered so much and how open communication became one of our biggest lifelines. You’ll also hear how the number 10, of all things, ended up weaving itself into our family story and eventually inspired the names of our kids, Tenley and Mateo. It’s funny how life drops little hints even in the middle of chaos, and we’re grateful for the reminders that something beautiful was taking shape. Whether you’re on a similar journey or simply want to better understand someone you love, this conversation offers connection, clarity, and hope. And if you’ve ever felt alone in your own fertility story, we hope this episode reminds you that you’re anything but.Key Timestamps:[00:00:00] Introduction.[00:02:36] IVF journey challenges.[00:05:42] Pituitary gland and fertility issues.[00:08:07] IVF journey and faith.[00:17:00] Spiritual midwifery journey.Memorable Quotes:"I just encourage you that barrenness can be broken, bitterness can be healed, and your womb is a very powerful place." [00:15:16] – Brittanie McCoy"Just know that there is a plan and there is purpose and you keep the faith… you can pray for a miracle because I tell you what, we saw it happen in our life." [00:13:00] – Matt McCoyIf you're looking for a meaningful gift — or just better coffee — check out Good Neighbor Coffee. Smoother, low-acid, and rooted in a mission to love their neighbors well. Visit our website: https://goodneighborcoffee.com/Want to stay connected with Matt & Brittanie and see what they’re building? Follow Good Neighbor Coffee here:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goodneighborcoffeecompany/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61579511283539Produced by Evolved Podcasting: https://www.evolvedpodcasting.com