Episode 3: How to Choose the Right Man: Three Key Criteria From a Marriage Counselor and Author

Our guest today on the She Could, So She Did Podcast- Dating After Divorce in Your 40s, is Dr. Shane Perrault, Ph.D! Dr. Shane is the author of the book, The Black MANual: Less Drama, More Love -- a Single Woman's Guide to Choosing Mr. Right. Whether you are single, divorced or widowed, and looking for Mr. Right, when you are an African American woman the rules are different.  You face a starkly different reality than your non-black counterparts. Nevertheless, Dr. Shane Perrault, Ph.D. (Dr. Shane) has learned “It is never too late to live happily ever after.” In this episode, Dr. Shane shares the three key criteria that should be on your list when searching for Mr. Right and living your "happily ever after." We also discussed what can happen when a man earns less than his partner, and the importance of friendship in a relationship. You don't want to miss this one!    In 2004, Dr. Shane founded the African American Marriage Counseling.  Whether you just heard, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you," are trying to rebuild trust after a marital affair, need to replace distance with closeness, need to forgive (or be forgiven), or are trying to avoid separation or stop a divorce -- Dr. Shane employs Gottman Institute's research based methods to help couples develop the skills needed to hear (and be heard), resolve conflicts in a "win/win' vs a "win/lose" fashion, and speak each other's "love language" so that you can try and make peace with the past and get past the hurt. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shecouldpodcast/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shecouldpodcast/support Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.