Episode 30: What Mood, Dude?
Why are people so terrified of "ruining the mood" during sex? This week, we investigate alleged mood-ruiners, like consent conversations, technique criticism, and laughter. Spoiler alert: if the mood is good, it's hard to ruin! Silent Sex | Hard Conversations | Yes, And... | And Then What? | Laughing | Consent | Redirects | Princess | Safer Sex | [Reid Mihalko's Elevator Speech](http://reidaboutsex.com/safersexelevatorspeech/) | Escalation | Compliment Sandwich | Positive Feedback | Check-Ins | Bad Music | The "Gloopy" Story | Body-Shaming | Gender Weirdness | Take the Leap | Phone Calls | Pre-Negotiation | "Did I Say You Could Stop?" | Labels
Episode 30 of the The Dildorks podcast, hosted by Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan, titled "Episode 30: What Mood, Dude?" was published on April 12, 2017 and runs 67 minutes.
April 12, 2017 ·67m · The Dildorks
Summary
Why are people so terrified of "ruining the mood" during sex? This week, we investigate alleged mood-ruiners, like consent conversations, technique criticism, and laughter. Spoiler alert: if the mood is good, it's hard to ruin! Silent Sex | Hard Conversations | Yes, And... | And Then What? | Laughing | Consent | Redirects | Princess | Safer Sex | [Reid Mihalko's Elevator Speech](http://reidaboutsex.com/safersexelevatorspeech/) | Escalation | Compliment Sandwich | Positive Feedback | Check-Ins | Bad Music | The "Gloopy" Story | Body-Shaming | Gender Weirdness | Take the Leap | Phone Calls | Pre-Negotiation | "Did I Say You Could Stop?" | Labels
Episode Description
Why are people so terrified of "ruining the mood" during sex? This week, we investigate alleged mood-ruiners, like consent conversations, technique criticism, and laughter. Spoiler alert: if the mood is good, it's hard to ruin!
Silent Sex | Hard Conversations | Yes, And... | And Then What? | Laughing | Consent | Redirects | Princess | Safer Sex | Reid Mihalko's Elevator Speech | Escalation | Compliment Sandwich | Positive Feedback | Check-Ins | Bad Music | The "Gloopy" Story | Body-Shaming | Gender Weirdness | Take the Leap | Phone Calls | Pre-Negotiation | "Did I Say You Could Stop?" | Labels
Credits:
Music by PROTODOME
Artwork by Addison Finch
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