Episode 31: The Weekly Spark-- Making your Partner's Turn On a Ritual

Dr. Veda discusses the issue of complacency in long-term relationships, emphasizing that it stifles desire. She introduces the concept of the QK "Weekly Spark," a ritual to maintain erotic connection through consistent check-ins. This practice involves setting a regular time, asking each other what would turn them on, listening without judgment, committing to fulfilling the request, and sealing the connection somatically. Dr. Veda highlights the importance of self-care and the dynamic nature of desire, suggesting that without weekly attunement, couples risk stagnation. She encourages couples to practice this ritual to keep their erotic current alive and foster a lifelong, passionate relationship.