Episode 32 - The Long Goodbye: Loving Through Alzheimer’s

What happens when the person you planned your retirement with begins to fade… years too soon? In this deeply personal episode of Retired Life, Wish You Were Here, we sit down with Tammy McCabe, a nurse anesthetist who cared for her husband—an anesthesiologist—after he was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia at just 59. Tammy shares what it’s really like to love, support, and care for a spouse through the progression of this disease—from the first signs, to the daily realities of caregiving, to the quiet moments of connection that still shine through. This conversation is for anyone facing dementia, caregiving, or the unexpected loss of the future they once planned. ⸻ What We Talk About Recognizing early signs of dementia Hearing and processing a life-changing diagnosis The emotional reality of caregiving Staying connected as memory fades Practical steps families should take early Navigating the final stages with dignity Finding purpose and healing after loss ⸻ Key Takeaway Caregiving is one of the hardest roles a person can take on—but it is also one of the deepest expressions of love. ⸻ Helpful Resources for Caregivers Alzheimer’s Association 24/7 Helpline: 800-272-3900 Support groups, education, and care planning tools Family Caregiver Alliance Practical guides, caregiver support, and state-by-state resources National Institute on Aging Easy-to-understand medical info on Alzheimer’s and caregiving Eldercare Locator Connects you to local caregiving services and support ⸻ Simple First Steps if You’re Starting This Journey Get power of attorney and medical directives in place early Build a support team (family, friends, professionals) Don’t wait to ask for help—caregiver burnout is real Find a support group (even online can make a difference) ⸻ About the Show Retired Life, Wish You Were Here shares real stories of retirement—the joy, the challenges, and everything in between—helping you navigate this chapter with purpose and connection. ⸻ Stay Connected Follow along, share this episode with someone who needs it, and check out our Retired Life, Wish You Were Here merchandise—because every season of life deserves to be lived fully. ⸻ Hashtags #AlzheimersAwareness #CaregiverSupport #RetiredLife #WishYouWereHere #DementiaCare #CaregiverLife #LifeAfterLoss #HealthyAging #SupportCaregivers