Episode 329: ADHD People Pleasing Holiday Edition: Why We Say Yes to Everything (+ How to Stop)

In Episode 329 You Will Discover: Core reasons why ADHD brains are more prone to people-pleasing How to start a People-Pleasing Inventory to notice your patterns without judgment Simple reflection questions to help you recognize who, when, and why you overcommit Work With Me: 👉 Join We're Busy Being Awesome (group coaching) 👉 Learn more about private coaching here 👉 Join us in Overwhelm to Action here 👉 Take the Overwhelm Type Quiz here! Resources From This Episode: Episode 139 - What is Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria: What Does RSD Look Like in ADHD? Episode 140 - How to Deal with ADHD & Imposter Syndrome + Five Competence Types Episode 167 - What is ADHD Masking? Plus, Examples & Solutions Episode 247 - 8 Discreet ADHD Emotional Regulation Strategies for Adults More ADHD Resources: Discover my favorite ADHD resources Learn my Top 10 Tips to Work With Your ADHD Brain Access the I'm Busy Being Awesome Planning System Get the I'm Busy Being Awesome Podcast Roadmap Free course: ADHD Routine Revamp This post contains affiliate links, meaning I may earn a small commission if you make a purchase through my links, at no extra cost to you. Disclosure info here. Leave IBBA A Rating & Review! If you enjoy the podcast, would you be a rockstar and leave a review? Doing so helps others find the show and spreads these tools to even more people. Go to Apple Podcasts Click on the I'm Busy Being Awesome podcast Scroll down to the bottom of the page, where you see the reviews. Simply tap five stars; that's it! Bonus points if you're willing to leave a few sentences sharing what you enjoy about the podcast or a key takeaway from the episode you just heard. Thanks, friend! Chapter Outline 00:00 Introduction: The Holiday Dilemma 01:14 Understanding the People Pleasing Cycle 02:54 Podcast Overview and Holiday Challenges 04:10 The Drive to Please: Coping Mechanisms 07:05 Rejection Sensitivity and ADHD 10:35 Impulsivity and the Automatic Yes 14:32 Emotional Regulation and Guilt 19:01 Masking, Self-Worth, and People Pleasing 24:31 Conducting a People Pleasing Inventory 28:07 Conclusion and Next Steps