Episode 35: Fine, I’ll Just Do It Myself: The Danger of Weaponized Incompetence episode artwork

EPISODE · Jan 20, 2022 · 1H 20M

Episode 35: Fine, I’ll Just Do It Myself: The Danger of Weaponized Incompetence

from Pillow Talks · host Vanessa & Xander Marin

Has your partner ever done a task so poorly or asked you so many questions that you finally just said “fine, I’ll do it myself!”? This is called weaponized incompetence, and while your partner may not mean for it to be, it can be harmful in a relationship. In this episode we’re going to talk about how to identify weaponized incompetence, how it shows up in OUR relationship, and what to do if you or your partner are doing this.   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!   Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode35 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Has your partner ever done a task so poorly or asked you so many questions that you finally just said “fine, I’ll do it myself!”? This is called weaponized incompetence, and while your partner may not mean for it to be, it can be harmful in a relationship. In this episode we’re going to talk about how to identify weaponized incompetence, how it shows up in OUR relationship, and what to do if you or your partner are doing this.   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!   Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode35 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

NOW PLAYING

Episode 35: Fine, I’ll Just Do It Myself: The Danger of Weaponized Incompetence

0:00 1:20:27

No transcript for this episode yet

We transcribe on demand. Request one and we'll notify you when it's ready — usually under 10 minutes.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long is this episode of Pillow Talks?

This episode is 1 hour and 20 minutes long.

When was this Pillow Talks episode published?

This episode was published on January 20, 2022.

What is this episode about?

Has your partner ever done a task so poorly or asked you so many questions that you finally just said “fine, I’ll do it myself!”? This is called weaponized incompetence, and while your partner may not mean for it to be, it can be harmful in a...

Can I download this Pillow Talks episode?

Yes, you can download this episode by clicking the download button on the episode player, or subscribe to the podcast in your preferred podcast app for automatic downloads.
URL copied to clipboard!