Hey Kyle, can you lower the key cards? Straight up say it. Anyways, welcome back to Talking Onsets. I'm your host Kyle and I'm here with Christopher.
And... Yeah, that's right. I'm sorry. I'm not even checking on it.
I'm still struggling with that. I don't know why. I just don't like it. We can mix it up.
Do you want to mix it up? Welcome back. Welcome back. Welcome back to Talking Onsets.
No, that was retarded. Anyway, dude, so recently, not recently, I was talking to someone. I don't know how to say this. Never mind.
Scratch that. Why are you lying? Yeah. Good segue.
I don't know why. It's not a cool. But do you lie a lot? Why?
Kind of. I feel like lies are necessary. Maybe it's egregious of me to think. Are you lying about using that word?
I think so. I'm just saying I don't know. I just saw it in an article. I was like, I don't know how to use it.
Sometimes I feel like you use words that sound really smart. Because they're big words, right? Yeah. Me specifically?
Yeah, you specifically. I wouldn't. Listen, hear me out. Because I'm trying to be truthful for once.
See, here's the thing. You're always truthful. It's just you're hurtful when you're truthful. No, so you'll use big words, right?
Sometimes I think you use them when you know nobody else knows what it means just to make yourself sound smarter. Oh yeah, easily. Easily. Yeah, but then sometimes I'll catch you using the word.
I won't catch you, but you'll use a word, but I feel like you're using it in the wrong context. Probably. But you're so confident. And you just stick with that word.
I'm just like, you're using it wrong, bro. I just never tell you. I'm telling you now though. I appreciate that.
Since we're being truthful, you're kind of an asshole. I already knew that though. You told that all the time. Yeah, I don't tell you that all the time.
You do tell me that all the time. I just say you're an asshole. Oh, so now the truth comes out. I'm an actual asshole.
Sometimes. Sometimes. I know I can be. I'm sorry.
I don't know what it is. I think it's the Leo in me, honestly. I don't know. But it's good though, that you're that kind of an asshole.
Why is it good? I don't think it's good. I'm sensitive. Like you are.
Like I shouldn't be at times. So I mean, it's a little give and take. Like you could be a little more sensitive. Yeah, I feel that.
Yeah, well, I mean, like white lyshure. But like, again, that's like, what do you consider a white light? So, um, I don't know. That's just meant to be looked at.
No, honey. Not at all. It makes you look huge. And that's why I am single.
No. Like, I don't know. You have to crack with it. Yeah.
No, white light. I guess what they're small wise, right? Is I guess they're like, they're not necessarily like. They're called white lies, actually.
I don't know. I've never understood it either. But yeah, basically, I'm not necessarily like, I'm not. I'm not necessarily like, I'm not.
I'm not necessarily like, I'm not. They're not necessarily like, they're called white lies, actually. I don't know. I've never understood it either.
But yeah, basically, they're just small little lies, I guess. So I mean, like, can you give me an example? Like, Oh, if you like, you know, if you're in high school, like, Oh, did you take up trash? Yeah, I did.
But like, but you didn't read it. Or like, I mean, I guess the reason I wouldn't say like, I tell white lys all the time. But I feel like, if I were a lot, I would rather tell a white lie rather than like, out like, or outright come up with a plot in context and setting up like, me lying to someone. You know according to Google a white light is a harmless for trivial life, especially one told to avoid hurting someone's feelings So like how I tell you all the time that I like you I mean, I know that's a lie straight out No, I do like you like you like you like you sort of there's times where I don't like a bull I'm but yeah, but we're like siblings though to an extent really.
Yeah, it's annoying sometimes. Yeah, not gonna lie That's our new podcast name not gonna lie copyrighted you're here first yeah not gonna lie that's a good name Yeah, we should have been that now, but yeah, I dabble in some lying to do I don't know why I say that like Sure why it's pretty good at lying, you know, well, sometimes I'll I'll lie though for the right reasons Okay, like either lie to again protect someone's feelings Maybe that's not the right reason maybe sometimes yeah to be up front But you know there are points where it can be yeah like passed over. Yeah, right or I'll lie to like Get something you want that's bad to I guess I won't I don't lie To be hurtful mm. Yeah, yeah, I mean like I would never like if someone to come up to me and be like oh my god Am I like really pretty actually that's a lie But I think of an example I mean I kind of see where you're going though.
Yeah, you know your eyes aren't meant to be hurtful So like given then like given that you said that like it is what's The one lie you wish you never really said one lie. I wish I never said yeah I want to do this podcast with Chris. No, I was Wish I would never had said why I say it why not the truth so such because it's still going No, so I'm not the lie is still going no, I'm just kidding well, I guess so I lied about Yeah, never went no that remember I told you that time in fifth grade where I was like kind of a bully I'm gonna get in trouble for it and what not yeah, I lied about not having detention I just said I had you know like to your parents. Yeah, I was like, oh, I need to stay after school for this like a Project or yeah, I was really tension sorry mom.
Yeah, but yeah, I guess that Oh, no, that makes me yeah, there was this one time where I told this girl I thought she was pretty but she wasn't kind of regret that because then she turned out to be really pretty later And then I was just like fuck that up No, what are you? This doesn't happen too often, but I think it was like maybe high like high school and like no it was middle school And so I think it was like seven thirty three like this girl like she was like she was cooler Whatever, right and like we're just friends right but she was like She's a little like two tomboys for me. Okay, but like we would hang out whatever and she's like I really like you Like you want to go out and you said yes, no, oh No, I didn't say no I didn't leave her on I was like oh like I think really cool Okay, maybe I did leave wrong because if I recall correctly It was like oh, I really like you two you're really awesome to hang out with like my parents are kind of strict like I'm not really allowed to like hang out outside school or whatever But it was me like I felt bad about that because it wasn't like because my parents weren't that strict Like I could if I just asked I guess it was just like This is gonna sound helpful like she wasn't like cute in my eyes. She was just someone like that Like she's just there.
I guess but so like I guess I feel bad about that Because I feel like I should be more honest about that yeah, but I mean it's all good now She's marrying has kids and shit so whatever good for her. Yeah, sorry tomboy girl out there. Yeah, oh, she's really nice though Okay, you still keep in touch right now. No, she's like she's like a total like mom now Okay, not that there's anything wrong with that.
It's just like there's no I can't like relate to that like yeah Yeah, have you ever lied to get something you wanted? Um Yeah, yeah all the time right all the time. Yeah, you can give me an example Off the top of my head, but yeah, I'm pretty sure I've done something like that maybe no my parents like oh like yeah I got great so like my video game probably They never asked to see it Uh, no they no I recall correctly no because it is like high school or whatever It's like they weren't like because you know like before in like middle school and like elementary school They'd give like report cards out But like when I went to high school, I guess like I don't know if it's like just an Nevada thing or maybe in California Too, it stopped but they stopped giving out report cards or whatever like you don't like they would only ever send out notices if you had like If you were like failing in classes, right? I still got report cards in high school.
Okay. Yeah, my parents kept mine. It's in their closet right now Oh for sure. Yeah, but I mean like it was it was always like Just like yeah, they would send out notices if you were like failing classes and I like I never really failed at any of my classes So I mean, yeah, so something like that Probably okay.
Yeah, um, I've definitely lied to get out of trouble. Oh, yeah. Yeah, like what so like Uh, again, this was like a kind of such a fucking lie in middle school deed So in middle school like uh we were at desk that didn't have the arm bar attached to the chair So you can pull the chair out. Okay, so we're just there And then this girl was like gonna sit down for whatever reason I thought it'd be funny because like I know like don't like pull pranks on my classmates So I pulled the chair out from beneath early.
Oh, yeah But like where we're sitting was kind of next to a wall So like when I pulled the chair out, it went always the wall And so like whatever there's enough room for whatever for the wall Well, she felt like I guess the back of the chair like really just kind of like her back Yeah, her back heart and like she's like she didn't like pull on cry but she's like laughing and crying Yeah, and then like my teacher was like who was that and I'll point out to like ironically enough He went at someone to cross the room. What was that guy? I pointed to uh, uh, this guy Dylan who was now married to the tomboy girl That I'd want to go out with oh, okay. I was like oh Dylan did it.
He's like what? He kind of got in trouble for it. Yeah, yeah. I felt hell of bad I don't think I ever did that in school because I think so my parents I never really had to lie to my parents.
Yeah, I always just sort of told them the truth Just because they're fucking scary. So I didn't feel like I wanted to lie. Yeah, so I guess with that fear if I ever got in trouble in school I think I was just too scared too much of a pussy. I just like yeah, I did it I did it But then obviously as I got older and I started doing a little bit more white lies I was like oh, this is fine I could get away with a few things.
Yeah, and then eventually it just became too where I just lie all the time and I just can't stop No, I'm just kidding. No, no, I'm just kidding But I don't think I've ever liked to get out of anything actually that's not true I will lie to get out of plans if I don't want to go to them. Oh, yeah, I think like that's like all the time That's like a hundred percent of people all the time Like for example one of our cousins who always asked me to do stuff with them I'll just be like I can't busy but so apart when I lied which doesn't don't worry about it. So I know because you did Oh, no, I'll tell you later.
So When I when I lie when I When I lie there's some truth to it. Oh, yeah, you always have always half lie. So like when they ask me like hey, are you busy? I'm really not or like I know I have time to possibly help them with whatever it is No, I'm yeah, I'm fully booked like fully booked man.
I got my recording at 10. Yeah, exactly No, like literally sometimes so like for example, I would literally just have to either, you know run my two errands I gotta get a haircut pick up some stuff. Yeah, and then just go home. That's it.
Yeah. Yeah, so That's me like hey, can you do this at this time and I'm like looking at my schedule? Yeah, because I have a schedule I don't have a schedule. You know, I'm imagining I'm looking at my schedule.
I'm just like 10 I got to do this at 10 empty empty. Yeah, I really like I do this at 10 and then this at one They're asking me to attend one if I'm free fuck. Nope not free You know, I'm just like damn, but now I get it. That's just but other times I will I'm kind of the same way like especially like I don't like to go out a lot.
Yeah, too often. Yeah, you know, like I'm definitely more of a home body I definitely like just being in my comfort zone and so like some some more cousins like want to hang out or whatever Which ones tell me tell me which ones I'll just pour it out. Oh, so yeah, okay. Comment down below if you want Yeah, like sometimes I like go on and hang out and stuff and it's just like Uh, no, I'm good.
Just want to like chill because they always bring like kind of like You do you do say that though. So you're not lying. What like if someone were to ask you like hey, I'm saying out. You're like, no, I'm good Oh, yeah, I guess I don't like that.
Yeah. Well, I mean, I've done it. I guess I've lied about it before like okay Well, like same thing with you like what cousin was asking me for help like um I could come over and like kind of use like help him out with whatever or like something like that I got some shit. Did you yeah?
Yeah, have you ever lied so much or like you started to lie with someone? Oh, but it's so old. Yeah, it just kept going good going I'm pretty sure I have at one point. Well, I feel like I was I felt so guilty.
I just blacked out like I can't oh, okay I mean like yeah, pretty sure I've done that one point. Yeah, have you? Try think pretty sure I have to but same thing. I've liked it out as well I'm sure it'll come back to me in the middle of the night when I'm trying to sleep and then Wait a dance what yeah, I would range like hey, what time you lied about killing that one dude?
Not you? He's buried at yeah, so and so no Well, have you ever lied in a job interview? Oh easily dude Easily be careful. Okay.
Some places do listen to this that might want to hire you. Oh, no, not easily Can we take that part up? No, not gonna take that part out. No, but I mean like what half wise Yeah, I always go with that half.
Why when you when you told me because it's clear and they know too the place that you're trying to apply for They know that you don't really have you know the experience that they need but when you told me like oh, yeah I told them professionally. I don't but personally I do I was like damn that's actually really smart to say because you're being truthful Yeah, that's actually true. Yeah, I was like I never thought of saying that because I know this one time I was in a job interview from a very first job. No my breakfast job my first job after college No, that was my job during college.
Oh, so my first job after college was working Yeah, so we're at this law school that you know broadcasted live online So I was be I was gonna be working in the control room and they took me into the control room They're like oh, yeah, so this is our equipment that we work with and then this is what's funny because they didn't even ask me If I worked with this before I just straight up lied. I know this yeah, I've worked with which was like okay It was a half-life you always cracked you kind of I was like oh Yeah Equipment in college or class so yeah, we've I've done this before for a class in college like we worked with this type of Board blah blah blah like okay cool and I think that they're like oh then yeah sure you're hired I was like sweet and then when I actually got into job was like, you know what looking at this now up close This is definitely not the board I worked with before Not really easy though, so you know I finished them You know I'm saying just you know I feel like Interviewers know that the way he's gonna lie. Yeah, like I think It's inhuman nature to lie to get to something better Yeah, but from my actual very very first job which was the BJ's one because I had no job experience Right so my resume was literally just volunteer shit Yeah, and the manager was looking at it. He's like How old are you I think at the time I was?
20 or no, I was really 21 I think yeah, I was 21 and he's like and you've never worked before and then obviously I can't like it's You know, I don't have any job experience. I was like no and then he's like you never had to I was like well Not to say I was rich but yeah, I was balling I was like well cuz like three school my parents didn't want me to work They want to focus on my schooling and he's like okay. I was like yeah, and I told him like But I mean I will work really hard if you give me this job. I'm a quick learner Well, I'm a total liar not a quick learner.
No, I really am a carter. How do I scrub it? Yeah, so what is this a dish? So like I couldn't lie to him right?
So and there are times two where people will ask me questions Like if I'm meeting someone for the first time and they ask me something or if I'm doing something for the first time I can't just flat out like no, I mean no I feel like I can't I'm too nervous too Like I feel like they're gonna catch me on it You know what I mean? Like I will say I am actually a pretty good liar But when it comes to like things like first things or whatever like meeting people or doing something for the first time and whatnot And they'll ask me like I'll have you done this before I can't be like yeah totally I'm like Vanessa I'll be like honestly no, but Give me the chance I will rock your world not but uh yeah, I know I can't but after a while Right if I'm doing something if I've been doing something for a while and then someone I don't let's wait actually because some that works sometimes people will come up to me actually I'm not gonna say that At bjs right this one time I was where you had bjs One of them plays was asking me something about a different position But because I was already working there for a while I was like yeah totally like I know how to do that Which I didn't but I did it anyways, so yeah Yeah, that's like that's interesting though. You can't lie to like a I mean the fact that you choose not to I think it's if it's something really important like if it's like a first job interview or if it's like A first job interview. I can't think of anything else But I can't I feel like I can't lie to them.
Yeah, I'll have to be somewhat truthful. I'll probably throw in like a few things Yeah, yeah, yeah Yeah, I had a fork when I was in PA so what yeah, yeah, I graduated top of class something anything right yeah, no I'm odd is No, have you ever lied in a relationship? Oh, yeah all the time. I mean like it's Again, it's it's natural.
I feel like to like lie in a relationship But like what are you lying about again? It's natural like the little white lies like maybe you know like you and your s0 like your s0 wants to go like on a hike or some shit Honestly, I'm not gonna go on a hike But that's my so so I'm gonna go on a hike No Like You and your s0 like if I feel like sometimes like I just want my own space right right and like obviously if you're with someone and they want to spend Time with you and that makes sense, you know Granted, it's probably not the best relationship if you have to lie to wanting to be alone Yeah, but you know like it happens. Yeah, that's the thing so so what I mean if you're lying about like I'm trying to talk I'm sorry. No, I'm just gonna go Anyway If you try But like if you like if you lie in the proceed to go out with someone else like that.
All right, that you're being kind of an ass right Yeah, but so here's my thinking I think most people lie in relationships Specifically the gentleman will lie in a relationship just to avoid a fight or yeah, sure yeah So like here's so sometimes you know not to be sexist or offensive or anything But you ladies like to play your games, okay, and us guys we're not as dumb as you think we are Okay, like correction most guys are stupid, but we're not as dumb as you think we are yeah, but we are stupid Okay, but we know when you're trying to make us lie or like try to catch us lying. So of course, we're gonna not tell you or No Like for example, right, let's say You're sniffing at other asks you a question about themselves or something But it's like you know that if you were to say the true thing it would upset them Yeah, but you also know that if you were to lie it would still upset them So like what do you do like you know, I mean it's just like you kind of just have to I'm not gonna say this because I know or like you'll lie just to Really struggling a good example, but I get what you're saying Yeah, sometimes it's better off to lie just because the amount of trouble you would get in would be less If you if you lie rather than like telling the truth like you get more trouble telling the truth Yeah, so like okay like so for example right like you were saying like if you're sniffing other ass you like oh, let's go hiking But you really just wanted times yourself right here like let's say you guys like she says like hey babe like I want to like go hiking with you, but you guys spend like a lot of time together All right, yeah, and you want to spend time alone But then you know that if you're like, uh, I want some space or you know whatever she's gonna take that in her mind Oh my god. He doesn't love me. You know Like okay, man say the course not all girls are like this, but I'm just saying like that is a perception that could happen Yeah, so of course you can be like oh babe, no, I'm busy But really you just want time alone.
Yeah, but if you were to say I want time alone She's gonna get mad and you'd be like no, this is not the reason why you know, I mean I just place in their head That's what I mean. So like you'll lie guys will lie for that reason. I'm not saying guys lie like go ahead and lie like okay Don't fucking lie. Yeah, I mean like I understand it's healthy.
Yeah, I understand when certain times you have to lie Yeah, but it's not good. I think certain situations to require you to lie like not just in a job interview, but like I don't know if you've ever like Like been in a situation like this, but like so lately I've been playing Overwatch with like a stack of like a stack a group of friends or never and Overwatch the video game for those I don't know And in that side group sometimes like obviously Whenever there's like girls in the group like people like crush on each other whatever shit like that right and there's kind of bit of drama and so like I I kind of figured out my role in the group dynamic. I don't like the drama. I always want to stay out of it So I'm just kind of like I'm just there like I play the dumb one.
I'm like, what are we talking about? Huh? Like that's that's my role because it's easy. It's casual and like generally people avoid telling me all the dirty details But like so recently though, some there were things that were said to me about someone else That other person said certain things about the other people who said something about them And so it's like, you know Like I guess this might this is gonna make me look back But I didn't tell the person that they were shooting on like any details.
I was like, oh, I don't know like No one ever tells me anything so I'm just kind of there And so like in situations like that I like a lot just because it's like yeah, of course you just don't want to It's not my place to get yeah, I get it sometimes I'll have friends too who will talk shit about another friend and then that friend will talk shit about that friend to me as well I'm just like in the middle and then they'll be like they say a name like I don't know dude I don't know and then I'll go to the other friend like they said something like dude, I don't know Yeah, yeah, of course I know but like I will try to I will casually like try to get them to resolve it Like I will tell both sides like I mean if you feel like you like you honestly you just need to talk to them and squash it Yeah, no for sure and also so don't lie to me. Okay, I know because it's very very coincidental Okay, but it's so coincidental that it has to be the truth when you and Venus texted me about helping with the baby shower And I was like nah, I won't literally after I sent that text like two minutes later just texting me Yeah, it was like hey like I noticed last minute but can you help with the baby shower? So like I'm assuming one of you guys are like, how does it want to help? No, I swear to you.
I didn't okay, so like You don't have to show me. I'm okay. No, it wasn't me like so I was someone if anything was Venus Because like I can't see Venus doing that though. No, no, I see you doing it.
Oh, this like wow hold on I don't know why I just can't wait. All right. Okay. This is why I can't see Venus doing it is because she's too much of a pushover or like Like you're a pushover too, but you're she's more so of like a she doesn't want anyone to like she doesn't want to be caught in it You know, I mean pooviness.
Yeah, so she won't she just won't do anything. Yeah, you know, I mean she'd be like oh, well I don't know I don't know Like very yeah, I mean just like in the corner whereas you you like not not to call you out or anything You know, but I think I would try to pull off. Yeah, you know, I mean like that's why I thought it was you Oh, yeah, no, it definitely wasn't me like I mean I still think you like What's funny is like this I think it was at work at the time. Yeah, because it was during a weekday Yeah, so I was like and I was checking my phone was like, oh blowing up like I just I know I checked it you guys well like it's just a simple like hey We need to like all get together and like come plan this shit out.
Yeah, but uh Honestly though, I think like maybe it wasn't Venus it could be a coincidence But I see I see your point because it was literally like after I told you guys know I'm not gonna help out and then you're like because you said just said you need to help out Okay, so about 10 she did say that like a long time ago. I know that yeah I know that but like I was just trying to fuck with you guys like I was literally just joking And then like when you said that I took it as like wow this dude seriously taking me serious So I'm like literally after you said that just then texting me I was like wow this fool literally went and told Jess Dude Kyle's not helping out. You know you said you should so that she's probably like oh my god, okay fine I'll step in and tell him that's like wow really guys really that's like And fucking Venus do when I texted the group I was specifically I specifically met you because it was right after you said that Right and the view has a time. She's like I didn't say anything.
I swear It wasn't me that's why I thought it was heard because it was like right after she like totally denied it It was like no because I thought like when I saw that you said it to me. Yeah, I assumed it was to me Oh, yeah, like you knew yeah, but the fact that Venus outright was like no to me Yeah, like the one who denies it supplies it. Yeah, it's like damn. Do you just have it right on your forehead like don't I don't know either way whatever, but yes, I'm still gonna help you guys.
Don't worry for sure. Yeah, let's just fuck them with you Yeah, I knew that too like You know, you don't gotta lie to it sometimes sometimes you can't tell what I'm joking around and no and I know that like you think I'm really serious Sometimes yeah, sometimes the idea so but no like I felt like that one. I knew you were joking I was like there's no way he's not gonna help out with the do you ever like feel like lying through texts? It's super easy to do I wouldn't say lying, but I would say like perc like Conveying like infliction is like super okay.
This is totally off topic. No, but what I was gonna say it's super hard to do to show someone like you're being sarcastic Oh, I don't think so I think it's hard at least at least for me. It's hard for me to like read sometimes Like if I really like actually like hey, you want to like go to like yeah, I guess I guess it's hard for people to read it Yeah, yeah, like no the person who's saying it seems like they're being very clear that they're being sarcastic. Yeah Yeah, but like that's like if you like yeah if I text you like hey, let's go to like anime or some shit And you'd be like no, whatever, but you could be like no like yeah, no, but yeah being sarcastic.
Yeah, so like sometimes it's hard for me to pick up on at least Text Again, yeah, like white lies like if someone needed to like hang out or Like so when we helped like our cousins moving stuff Loki kind of didn't want to do it just because like Yeah, you know, but you don't want to do it. Yeah, but I mean So lately though I mean I shouldn't say lately I Lately though I've been lying all the time. No, I don't know like I've been just trying to change that though Like you can't always tell the truth. I guess like you know you want to like you're bound to like lie at some point You know lately though, I've been just trying to avoid situations like that all together though Where you avoid lying?
I guess so we talk a lot about how we lie But have you ever been lied to and known about it? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, what? I love you. No, you don't shut up lawyer Uh, no, so I guess it was just like Not to bring up like a really old like podcast episode but like when I was with someone Like I kind of knew like something was going on.
Yeah, and it's just like I guess like she kind of gave it away Like maybe she like Loki wanted me to know that there was like third party But didn't all right say it and just kind of made me guess at it But like I feel like like in that situation like I knew I was being lazy Like have you ever tried to like like if you knew someone was lying to you have you ever tried to catch him in it? Um Not asking hell of questions about the lion shit and see if they trip up Not not so much no like because like once I know they're lying to me You just kind of like we'll fuck it Yeah, like I get it if you want to lie to me you have your reason sure like justified or not I'll roll with it I mean don't but like don't expect me to like whatever I say back don't expect it to be like the truth Yeah, because I mean it's like equal parts like you give what you take and you take what you get so I mean You know what I mean? What about you? Have you ever like caught someone in the lie or like try to like trip them up and and all that stuff or Not not so much like in a lie.
I guess like sometimes someone will tell me like oh, I'm fine But I know they're not you know, I'll be like no, you're not like no, you're not. I'm fine. I'm fine I think that's the most common lie. Yeah, but I think that's the closest justified lie though What do you mean like when something like at least whenever so when someone generally asked me if I'm okay And I say I'm fine even though I'm not like The reason why I say that it's more of a defense mechanism than anything and I feel like that's a justified lie like that That's something I think it depends on the situation though because what I'm talking about is like I knew this person was mad at me Oh, but they kept saying that they were fine But it's like don't fucking play and tell me you're fine when I know you're clearly upset I just tell me you're upset.
Yeah, and then let's talk it out But yeah, that's what I meant. No like so I don't think that's just I think that's just viable Because like for me, I just don't like it when you're gonna tell me you're fine And then continue to be mad at me in conversation. Okay, you know, I mean, I know like don't because then you're just flat out lying Yeah, it's not just about all yeah If you don't want to talk about it like why you're mad and you just want to let it go Tell me that and be like I'm not fine, but I don't want to talk about it. I think okay fair Yeah, I mean, but don't tell me I'm fine and then Continue to not be fine in front of me.
It's just like I can't like that shit stupid to me. Yeah, so that's why I don't think that's just a Message way like for people like let's say for example if they're really having a bad day But they just don't want to let anybody else feel that bad day too and they say no I'm fine I get that yeah, I understand that and we don't talk about it I don't want to talk about it. You don't even have to tell me no I'm having a day, but I want to talk about because that's totally different Yeah, I mean I get everything and just kind of going back to what you said about saying you're fine And then continuing to be mad at you during the conversation like I get it like you don't get snobbed every time you say something or like Yeah, it's like it's like it's in that little bit of solar that little bit of shade does get like aggravating It's like damn, okay, like if we're not gonna talk about it like don't snub me like yeah I get it, but I guess the reason why I think it is justifiable in that sense at least for me It's because I always do this like if someone like does something that upsets me and they're obviously asking me if I'm fine I'm saying I'm okay or like I'm fine is I won't snub them in the conversation letter like later on I'll just like bury it and then I'll try to be polite or I'll try to make things like less awkward If it's something I really upsets me I'd be like oh no I'm good but uh like and then all I like oh actually I need to go do something though like real quick like give me a minute or something and then I'll just Do my own thing kind of like that so I guess in that context I find it justifiable because I'm just trying to just apply my reaction Have you ever done that though or what oh I guess you have never mind you just answered it I'll do say have you ever done where you told someone you're fine, but you're not clearly we're just talking about it Yeah past two minutes. I'm stupid.
But I think it's also dangerous though like doing that Yeah, for sure it is yeah just because like you at least for me I always ended up kind of burying things instead of like addressing them or anything like that Yeah, no, I'm the same way too. That's why like when we did our game. That's why when we did our um What was it 2019 podcast like our new year's resolution and goals? Now how I told you like one of my goals was to be more like open and truthful and you're like no You already are but like I'm like with my feelings because sometimes I'll do that too Like if I'm mad and someone asks me like okay, I'll be like yeah, I'm fine because again I just don't want to talk about it I know I'm being hella hypocritical right now, but I will I won't again I won't really snub them for it either like during the conversation.
Yeah, right? I was trying to bury it Yeah, at least I'll try not to but like that's why I'm Pushing more for just being up front and be like if you're mad tell me and if I'm mad then I will tell you Yeah, but then like at the same time too Like it sucks because sometimes in certain relationships whether it be friend or like you know love Like if you do tell that person you're mad they'll get mad at your mad Yeah, like they won't really want to hear you out. It's just like it's unfair It's like that's why I'll be like I'm fine because I know you don't want to hear why I'm mad because it's just gonna make you mad Like they don't want to listen, you know, so that's why I'll sometimes say I'm just I'm fine No, and I get in like not gonna lie But sometimes I wish you did open up like your feelings to me a little bit more Just because we do like our podcast and stuff like that But like there are obviously there are days where like you kind of do seem like a little more edgier than usual But like I never asked about it because it's like I think we have this understanding like we're just not gonna We're just not gonna talk about our feelings like that. You know what I mean?
I think for me. It's not like I don't know Do you think that's my perception of yeah? No, I don't do it like only to you No, I know like I don't share when it comes to like relationship shit I don't like to really like out it. Yeah.
Yeah, you know what I mean because I also talked about this with Um, are there nieces or whatever in San Diego? Like there's it's the whole like communication thing like if you have a problem with your relationship or significant other I don't feel like telling it to someone else about it or like trying to like it's good to talk it out Right obviously like talk out your feelings. That's always a good thing But like to me personally when it comes to relationships like that which are significant other I feel like if you talk about your feelings with someone else Like what's the point? Yeah, like if you're having a problem with your significant other talk to your significant other about it Like don't be going around going your best friend like oh my god.
So and so did this today Yeah, like blow it up. Yeah, you know because then that person obviously is gonna either be on your side or be on their side And you're gonna be mad or you know, whatever yeah If they're on yeah, if they're on your side Then they're just gonna give you bad ideas or something or like tell you what you want to hear You just gonna blow it up for person, you know like for example if someone like Like let's just uh so there's someone right who's telling me their problems where there's something another and then you know They're hella telling me all this shit like why they're hella upset about it And then I was just like dude honestly like I don't know why you're telling me all this stuff Like if you just went to that person and told them this and swash it Yeah, and both both you guys need to hear each other out like you both need to hear each other out like you need to hear them And they need to hear you swash it easy done I don't know why you're telling me all this shit because I'm not gonna help you like if you're telling me all this stuff And I'm just gonna tell you obviously what you want to hear Yeah, you know what I mean? But then at the same time I told that person too, I'm like I understand where they're coming from You know and I understand what you're coming from But don't bring me into this go talk it out with them Yeah, you know, that's why I don't tell people like my shit because I already know Whoever I'm gonna tell what they're gonna tell me back. Yeah, no I get it That's why yeah, so I mean again that wasn't trying to like out you for anything No, I know I just I need to explain to you though why I don't yeah, no And I get it and I think that's where the understanding comes from as well because like I kind of knew that to to a certain extent It was just like I mean even if he does tell me like what am I gonna do, you know like he yeah He's already gonna know like in his heart of hearts what to do or like what like needs to happen Like if anything I'm just gonna be someone who listens but I mean Going back to that though or kind of like elaborating on it then his um Do you ever feel uncomfortable telling people what they want to hear like in that like specifically in that situation where someone's like Obviously just blown up like their relationship problem.
They're like oh so no Is obviously you can tell they're baiting you and or like they're fishing for you No, you know me like whenever we have a certain family member who's like upset with something Like you and you've been there like I will tell them what they want to hear but they also tell them like look You could feel this way blah blah like I get it understand but there's also this to it Like you need to realize that yeah, you know, you're not always right dude like you're in the wrong here honestly Yeah, you know what I mean like you know what I'm talking about yeah Yeah, so like no I don't feel I will tell them what they want to hear but I'll also tell them like okay No, this is like here's what you need to hear like here's what you really need here So yeah, I feel like I don't when it comes to shit like that when it comes to personal stuff I don't think I could full online be like yeah, totally dude. You're totally right totally right like yeah You know I will tell them like no, I think you're wrong or whatever if they're wrong if they're wrong if they're really think they're wrong I will tell them yeah, I think you're wrong and this is why but I understand we come yeah Yeah, I guess I so speaking about that person it makes me feel uncomfortable I know I know why though is because you're just you're too too passive. Yeah, like you you'll hate being like in conflicts You will just say whatever they want to hear it, but then it makes you uncomfortable because you know that that's not right Yeah, because you're you're just too good. Yeah, I'm a little like I will we'll be my way out of it Yeah, but sometimes you got it.
You just gotta but that's why you're there Yeah, I know I'm on the asshole. That was a problem straight. It's good cop back up. Yeah Guys let's do back up Oh the movie the other guys.
Yeah, so we can move. I saw the detective Pikachu last night. Oh dude. I heard he's actually pretty good Yeah, it was it was fun.
It was really funny and like Peter and them I went afterward. Yeah, that's why I couldn't record yesterday Hey, at least I didn't lie to you, right? You didn't tell me the truth either. I told you now But I didn't lie I told you now so anyways Yeah, well because they because the canner wanted to watch it and he was at work We're not on Friday, but you know we're talking about at work past week I'm almost go watch it so and it was out there in San Ramon and like you get off work at five and it's like primetime traffic So it's like yeah, I guess I didn't want to invite you put that figure it's cool.
Whatever You didn't really want to watch to take a picture. Yeah, I mean to be fair not gonna lie. Yeah, I know you don't want to watch it Like it's one of those movies that you will just wait for yeah No, it's not that don't want to watch it. I honestly had like I was really betting on it to suck to suck just because Every like live action the Hollywood movie of an anime that's ever come out ever.
Yeah, it's always been shit So it was it was good. I would say it was good It was like really funny and like pretty entertaining but some of the plot or There's some points where I was like, oh, yeah, this is kind of corny and dumb But at the same time I was like, oh, I'll give it It's credit because for uh, yeah for like a cartoon or anime adaptations live action. It was pretty good. Yeah, yeah And we got uh Pokemon cards too, but I fucking left my next to Canada's house.
God damn it had side up too like a holograph Yeah, you just asked for the pokemon packs if they have them for a detective Pikachu as long as it's still in theaters or whatever I think you just asked the concession saying like hey or like, you know, the where you get your tickets But like do you have any Pokemon cards? Oh for sure. Yeah, but what was hella funny too? So my friend last night was asking me like oh, what are you doing tonight?
I'm like oh, I'm about to go watch a movie and then John like three came out right last night Yeah, so John like three came out and then they're like oh John Wick and I didn't want to tell him that I was gonna watch That's like I was like I was like sure and then they're like you know, I'm talking about the movie right? I'm like, yeah, I know and I did the little moji like a smiling like a little sweat drop and they're like So are you watching or not? I'm like I'm watching a movie, but I don't want to tell you what movie because it's kind of nerdy She's like just tell me I was like to take the Pikachu. She was like, that's not nerdy at all I'm about to take my nephew to go watch it.
I'm like, yeah, like that makes it any better Yeah, it's like any better. I'm talking about going with grown ass men to go watch fucking the Pikachu Yeah, no, I get it though. Do you like but fuck it? It was a good movie.
I don't care I'm gonna watch any kind of kid movie shit that I'm interested in I guess the reason why I thought it was shit just because it's like again the whole live action or animated live action from Hollywood is always been bad but it was just weird knowing that Pikachu is voiced by like Ryan. Yeah, no it honestly it fits. It honestly fits. He did a really good job with it It was like he did it justice.
Yeah. Yeah, it was really good It was really good. Honestly like his voice with it It just fit and he was he was so like fucking funny and like there's jokes in there too because it's it's like a Pikachu So you think like it's a kid's movie. Yeah, but there's some jokes he throws in there That's just like four adults and it's like hella funny.
Oh for sure. Yeah, it's good. I liked it Yeah, I mean there's so many movies. There's so many movies.
I still need to see young game. Oh, yeah I still need to see John wait Yeah, I got it you comes out the end of the month. Yeah Godzilla's coming out. I do want to see detective Pikachu Because everyone's like talking about it.
So I mean like damn that's like four movies and you go see Let's go watch a end game next Friday next Friday. Oh, yeah, because yeah, I'm down. Yeah in a sentence. Hey, wherever.
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