Episode 38: The One Thing All Divorces Have In Common

In this episode of Lucky in Love, I’m talking about the one thing almost every divorce has in common—and it’s not what most people assume.Most marriages don’t end because of one dramatic moment. They end because of tiny turning points—small decisions that quietly change the direction of the relationship… and then get repeated until distance feels normal.I share a personal story from my first marriage—the day things shifted (years before divorce was even on the radar). And then I’ll walk you through the questions I use to help people get real clarity about what’s happening in their relationship right now.If any of this feels familiar, this episode will land:You’re not in constant conflict… but you don’t feel close.You feel that quiet loneliness even though you’re “together.”The little connection habits faded, and nobody really named it.You can’t point to one big event—just a drift you can’t un-feel anymore.This isn’t about blame. It’s about direction—and catching the turning point sooner.Free download mentioned in the outro (VFO): “Stop the Spiral: 3 Mistakes Couples Make When They’re Mad (and what to do instead)” — a practical guide to help you stop the downward spiral and have a better conversation even when you’re angry.Website / freebie link:kahoskins.comSubscribe for new episodes and practical relationship tools.Should We Get A Divorce Quiz: https://kari-hoskins-coaching-llc.kit.com/9e533cdd68Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karihoskinscoaching/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kari.lifecoaching/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4A7XJcQEYfTh3E43IIw7Bg/aboutWebsite: https://www.karihoskinscoaching.com