Episode 409: Stop Attracting Wrong-Fit Clients: The NLP Truth Behind Your Client Pattern

Episode SummaryYou don't attract the wrong clients by accident, you attract them because a boundary was never set. Amber Fuhriman breaks down why you keep saying yes to high-drama, high-resistance clients and how shifting from "fixer" to "coach" is the real key to building a business full of people who are ready to do the work.Keys Topics CoveredHow to spot the wrong-fit client pattern before you say yes (negotiating terms, questioning your expertise, dreading their name in your inbox)Why playing the "fixer" instead of the "coach" unconsciously attracts clients who resist their own transformationThe "every victim needs a villain" concept and how it explains why you become the target for a client's lack of resultsHow to use your own body's reactions (dread, over-explaining, discounting your price) as data about what you're willing to acceptThe one honest question to ask about your current client roster to break the cycle for goodNotable Quotes"You teach people how to treat you by what you choose to allow, and that doesn't just apply to other people. It applies to you as well.""A fixer takes responsibility for transformation. A coach creates the conditions for the transformation and the responsibility to be on the client.""You don't attract the wrong clients by accident. You attract them because somewhere a standard hasn't been set.""Every behavior has an intention. So what was the intention of saying yes when everything inside of you was screaming no?"Call to ActionBook a free strategy call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05Join the Break Your Bullsh*t Box Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/Check out Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.