Episode 41: Dating Part 3: Don't Date For the Wrong Reasons During or Post Divorce! Intentional Dating 101

Episode 41: Dating Part 3: Don't Date For the Wrong Reasons During or Post Divorce! Intentional Dating 101Our Guest for This Episode:Susan Trotter Susan Trotter, Ph.D. is a Relationship Coach who is passionate about helping people to feel confident and empowered in their lives. She has expertise in dating, relationships and divorce, with a special interest in the areas of mindset and communication. Connect with the guest:Susan's Website Susan's Facebook page @susantrotterphd on Instagram SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter and Dr. Susan Trotter discuss the importance of intentional dating during and after divorce. They explore how to prepare for life post-divorce, the significance of understanding one's intentions in dating, and the challenges of navigating relationships after betrayal. The conversation emphasizes effective communication strategies, the impact of narcissism, and the necessity of building self-trust and independence. Key takeaways include the importance of clarity in intentions, the value of positive reinforcement, and the need for personal growth before entering new relationships.TakeawaysStart thinking about your post-divorce life before you get there.Clarity around your intentions in dating is crucial.Every experience has lessons that can inform future relationships.You can't control what others do, only how you respond.Effective communication is key to healthy relationships.Positive reinforcement encourages good behavior in others.Narcissism exists on a spectrum; be aware of it in relationships.Pay attention to behavior over time to understand a partner.Building self-trust is essential after a divorce.You must do the hard work on yourself before dating again.TitlesNavigating Intentional Dating After DivorceBuilding a Brighter Future Post-DivorceSound Bites"Don't date for the wrong reasons.""Every experience has lessons for us.""Narcissism is a continuum."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Intentional Dating02:38 Preparing for Life After Divorce05:05 Understanding Intentions in Dating08:43 Learning from Past Relationships10:54 Navigating Betrayal and Trust Issues11:45 Regaining Power After Betrayal13:57 Effective Communication Strategies17:59 Building a Foundation of Goodwill19:43 Leading with Positivity in Communication20:06 Understanding Narcissism and Its Impact21:15 Navigating Relationships with Narcissistic Individuals23:04 Recognizing Patterns in Dating After Divorce25:02 The Importance of Observing Behavior Over Time27:46 Building Independence and Trusting Yourself31:50 Intentional Dating and Clarity of Purpose37:09 Introduction to Amicable Divorce38:38 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsintentional dating, divorce recovery, relationship coaching, self-awareness, communication skills, trust rebuilding, narcissism, emotional healing, dating after divorce, personal growthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!