Episode 42- Finding Pleasure with ShaVaughn Elle

Welcome to Soul Chat with your host Ebony M. Tutora. A podcast dedicated to diving beneath the surface level conversations... and going into the depths of the soul. Today I had the honor of interviewing the amazing ShaVaughn Elle, a writer/poet, holistic practitioner, spiritualist, and sex/pleasure specialist. THIS conversation was everything. We discussed the meaning of sex, and how society has blurred our vision on the sacredness of it. We've been shamed into denying ourselves the right to feel pleasure. ShaVaughn touches on the many forms of femininity so women can stop shaming other women for their unique expression of their sex. We also covered all things taboo, and the powerful way to tap into pleasure at ANY moment.  This conversation is bigger than sex, as it is a re-education of what know to be true. It is an inquiry into age-old beliefs that may be rooted in fear, lies, and a need to control a specific narrative. Obviously, since numbers don't lie... we know that porno is extremely popular, as well as other things that allow us to freely express our sex or to experience pleasure. This conversation takes the veil off of it, and gives us a safe space to explore the dynamic of what we have learned about sex vs what is REALLY true.  More about the Goddess: I transmuted my pseudonym into my greatest passion… My entry into eroticism started with my written work as L.T. Robinson and evolved into intimacy and sex education. I created Say It With Sex as a medium to better understand the nuances and synchronicity of sex and spirituality. While embodying my own path of sexual self-expression, I uncovered how this energy and perspective effects, as well as translates across every aspect of our lives. I desire to live a pleasure-filled life and want to help others do the same. My efforts are placed towards Black and Brown persons with vulvas and those who identify as feminine because I am she and fully understand the difficulty with embracing and standing firm in your sexual preference, expression, values, and beliefs. Our bodies are viewed as sex objects and resources of emulation, not conduits of sex energy. I seek to connect with the collective to de-stigmatize and redefine what sexual liberation looks like for us. It isn't always a nip-slip. As a creative healer, I use these gifts as instruments to unpack our distorted sexual lens. Through content, a strong spiritual foundation, and other educational tools, together as a community,  we peel back the layers and learn our erotic language to better understand who we are in pleasure. Connect with her at sayitwithsex.com or on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/sayitwithsx/