Episode 5: “Boys Don’t Talk About It” | Male Childhood Abuse (Audio)

In this powerful and deeply moving episode of The B Brave Project Podcast, Chloe sits down with Tony to explore a conversation that is still far too often left in the shadows — male childhood sexual abuse.Tony speaks with striking honesty about the abuse he experienced as a child and the impact it had on him growing up and into adulthood. He reflects on how much was overlooked at the time, particularly growing up in the 1970s, when conversations around abuse were rare and the idea that boys could be victims was often ignored or dismissed.Tony shares his story with courage and clarity, helping to shed light on the stigma, silence, and misunderstanding that many male survivors have faced.Despite everything he endured, Tony’s story is also one of resilience. Over the years he has channelled his experiences into creativity and growth — writing a book, composing songs, performing, and pursuing education, going on to achieve a Master’s degree with distinction alongside numerous postgraduate qualifications.This episode is raw, honest and incredibly important, but it may also be difficult for some listeners.By sharing his story, Tony helps open up an essential conversation about male survivors and reminds us why breaking the silence matters.Please note:Tony explains parts of his experiences in detail and some listeners may find this difficult to hear. Please take care when listening.You can reach out to:• NSPCC Helpline – 0808 800 5000• NAPAC (National Association for People Abused in Childhood) – 0808 801 0331• Samaritans – 116 123• CALM (Campaign Against Living Miserably) – 0800 58 58 58• Childline – 0800 1111You don’t have to go through this alone. Support is there if you need it.🧡