Episode 52: Nick Meima

In this episode, Bill and Marty talk with divorce, couples, and life coach Nick Meima about purpose, connection, marriage, divorce, stepparenting, and the inner beliefs that shape our lives. Nick shares how his path moved from aging and cohousing into relationship work, and why real growth starts with facing “not enough” beliefs, getting support, and doing the inner work needed to live with more love, maturity, and purpose.About Nick Meima:Nick Meima is a divorce coach, couples coach, and life coach whose work centers on intimacy, disconnection, and what it takes to build healthier relationships. His path began early through a deep interest in aging and care for older adults, which led him to earn graduate degrees in marriage, family, and child counseling and in gerontology. He later served as the CEO of a large retirement community, helped create multiple intergenerational cohousing communities, and spent years bringing people together across age groups and life stages. Today, Nick works with individuals, couples, business owners, and leaders, helping them move through divorce, relationship strain, and major life transitions with more clarity, maturity, and care.Contact Nick:Websites: www.rebuilders.net, www.ceodivorcecoach.com, www.supportingandcounselingcouples.comChapters:00:00 Purpose And Inner Child00:33 Meet Nick Meima02:14 Grandmother And Aging Call04:35 Retirement Community Reality07:39 Seeking Wisdom In Elders10:04 Cohousing And Community16:16 Weddings To Divorce Coaching18:24 Divorce Programs And CEOs22:51 Premarital Support Matters27:06 Illusions And Disillusionment29:09 Relationship As Third Entity30:10 Beyond Transactional Love31:02 Community Over Transactions31:39 Preparing for Stepparenthood35:19 Attachment Versus Love37:16 A Life of Service39:17 Coaching Through Core Beliefs41:16 Enoughness and Inner Child45:47 Escaping the Drama Triangle47:18 Purpose Through Inner Work49:21 How to Connect and Wrap Up🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice🔗 Parts Work Practice page: https://www.partsworkpractice.com/📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at https://trueyoupodcast.com available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults