Episode 55 Networking on Steroids with Pablo Gonzalez

In this episode, John talks with Pablo Gonzalez - host of Chief Executive Connector Podcast, co-founder of Be The Stage, founder of Connect With Pablo, and husband. Pablo was living a life of convenience until his wife changed his way of thinking. Listen to this episode to learn more: [01:23] - Intro [03:00] - Pablo's wife as his inspiration [06:00] - John's upcoming solo episode [08:00] - The incident that changed his life [09:00] - Pablo's backstory [12:40] - How did his brother's death impact him? [16:53] - His observation of the lives of successful people [20:25] - Pablo's definition of success [22:35] - Becoming a business developer [26:29] - His relationship flywheel [28:00] - How to make people see value in you [31:36] - How Pablo improves relationships at home [36:40] - Therapy for improving relationships [41:33] - The third-party victim of sexual abuse [45:20] - About Pablo's podcast NOTABLE QUOTES: "There's a common trait in all successful people, and it's that they like to serve others." "There is no growth without struggle." "Success is finding something that you love doing, figuring out how to use that for service, how to help others with it, how to monetize it, and building a business around it." "The world is headed to the idea that their stage is everywhere." "Your phone is the most scalable stage in the world." "Being next to someone is not the same as being with someone." "Admitting that you need help and asking for it is called wisdom." "Therapy is a way to get tools to name things. Once you can name something, then you are aware of it. Once you're aware of something, then you can manage it." "Being able to talk about feelings and emotions is a skill-set. You have to learn how to do it correctly." "There is always something you can do. No matter what the situation is in life, in marriage, and in business. No matter how difficult things are, there is always something that you can do that can help make things better." BOOK MENTIONED: "Behind the Cloud: The Untold Story of How Salesforce.com Went from Idea to Billion-Dollar Company-and Revolutionized an Industry" (Amazon*) USEFUL RESOURCES: https://connectwithpablo.com/  https://www.facebook.com/pabloantoniogonzalez  https://www.instagram.com/connectwithpablo  https://www.linkedin.com/in/pablo-gonzalez-4333b42  https://twitter.com/ConnectwPablo  CONNECT WITH JOHN Website - https://thejohnhulen.com  Clubhouse - https://www.joinclubhouse.com/@johnhulen  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnhulen  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/johnhulen  Twitter - https://www.twitter.com/johnhulen  LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnhulen  EPISODE CREDITS Intro music provided by Tony Palacios - https://www.instagram.com/tonytonedog/  Outro music provided by Jeff Scheetz - https://jeffscheetz.com/