Episode 562: Is Someone Emotionally Unavailable? Key Red Flags in Relationships

Join us as Kati Morton breaks down emotional unavailability—how to recognize it in yourself and others, navigate tricky friendships, and spot the three key indicators in relationships. Stick around as Kati shares her journey growing as a YouTuber, dives into her book Why Do I Keep Doing This, and reflects on what fulfillment truly means to her.Kati Morton, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist, Best-selling Author, and a highly sought-after speaker in the field of mental health. With a Master's in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, Kati has delivered impactful talks at prestigious events and platforms worldwide. Kati's upcoming book, Why Do I Keep Doing This?  (out December 2025), explores why we fall into the same emotional loops, such as people-pleasing or self-sabotage, and how to break them once and for all.Kati has been at the forefront of the mental health movement since 2011, sharing powerful videos that demystify mental health and replace stigmas with understanding. Her influential YouTube channel - with over 1.5 million subscribers and 130 million views, has made her a prominent figure in translating complex mental health concepts into accessible language.An accomplished author of two best-selling books "Are u ok?: A Guide to Caring for Your Mental Health" and “TRAUMATIZED: Identify, Understand, and Cope with PTSD and Emotional Stress,” Kati's dedication to dismantling barriers to mental health services and fostering a supportive global community is unmatched.Through her dynamic presence on social media and appearances on top-rated shows such as TODAY Show, CNN, E! News, CBS The Doctors, Dr. Phil, and The Dr. Drew Show, she has also appeared in numerous prestigious digital outlets such as the New York Times, USA Today, The Hollywood Reporter, Glamour UK, Bustle, INSIDER, HUFFPOST, and many more.Kati has successfully spread awareness, reduced stigma, and empowered individuals to prioritize their mental well-being.For more information, go to www.KatiMorton.com  Follow Kati Morton on YouTube // Instagram // TikTok, Twitter // FacebookChapters: 0:00 - Introduction0:48 - Emotional unavailability explained: How to spot it in yourself and others2:54 - Friendship dynamics with emotionally unavailable people6:15 - 3 key indicators of emotional unavailability in relationships25:00 - Kati Morton on creating content and growing as a YouTuber30:18 - Deep dive into Why Do I Keep Doing This and what the book offers36:21 - Kati reflects on what fulfillment means to her→ CONTACT ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA ← 1:1 CONSULTING CALL: https://calendly.com/rorymitchell-biz/15-minute-discovery-call?month=2025-02INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officially.rory/YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@officiallyroryX/TWITTER: https://twitter.com/officiallyroryHOO.BE: https://hoo.be/officiallyroryPAYPAL DONATIONS: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/rorymitch