Episode 57: Would You Want Your Kids Dating Someone Like You?

This episode starts with a simple question that’s uncomfortable for a reason.One day, your kids are going to choose partners who feel familiar to them. And a big part of what feels “normal” is being shaped right now at home.➡️ In this episode, I break down how your reactions, your patience, and the way you handle tension quietly program your kids’ nervous system for what love, conflict, and connection are supposed to feel like.➡️ I walk through why kids don’t see your bad days as “just a bad day,” how they internalize your blowups as something being wrong with them, and how that wiring carries forward into people-pleasing, fixing, and tolerating unhealthy dynamics later in life.➡️ I also talk about why your nervous system naturally chooses what’s familiar over what’s healthy, and how learning to regulate yourself is one of the most powerful ways to change the legacy you pass on.If you’ve ever cooled off after losing it and felt that pit in your stomach wondering what that moment just taught your kids, this episode will help you see what’s really going on and where change actually starts.👉 If this resonates, the next step is to book a complimentary discovery call through the link here:✅ BOOK a free discovery call with me here:calendly.com/jasonschnitzercoaching/free-discovery-call-with-jason✅ FOLLOW me on Instagram: @jasonschnitzercoaching