Episode #62: He Controlled Everything: My 29-Year Marriage to a Covert Narcissist

What happens when the person you vowed to spend your life with turns out to be living a double life — not in secret affairs, but in hidden abuse?In this eye-opening episode of Surviving Toxic Relationships, we’re joined by Mia Hanks — a brave survivor who spent 29 years married to a covert narcissist. Behind closed doors, Mia endured years of emotional manipulation and financial control, slowly losing her sense of identity, security, and voice. But today, she’s no longer surviving — she’s thriving.Mia takes us through her powerful journey of recognizing the red flags, reclaiming her independence, and transforming her pain into purpose through her memoir "Bride Maid."  Get your copy here!   https://www.amazon.com/Bride-Made-Memoir-Mia-J-Hanks/dp/B0CVC322MFIf you’ve ever questioned the subtle signs of narcissistic abuse or wondered how to support someone trapped in a toxic relationship, this conversation is a must-listen. Get ready for a raw, honest, and empowering discussion that could change the way you see emotional abuse — and maybe even help you or someone you love break free.What you’ll learn in this episode:The subtle but dangerous emotional red flags of narcissistic abuseWhy financial independence is a lifeline for survivorsHow Mia reclaimed her voice—and how you can tooThe healing power of storytelling and purposeHow to recognize covert narcissism in your own life or help others who may be trapped💬 Whether you're in a toxic relationship, recovering from one, or supporting someone who is, this conversation is a must-listen.Support the show🎙️ Stay Connected with Us! 📺 Subscribe on YouTube: @survivingrelationships12 🎵 Follow us on TikTok: @survivingtoxicrel 🌐 Visit our website: Looking to be a guest or host a guest for your podcast?https://www.joinpodmatch.com/deanalizzieContact us anytime at our email:  [email protected] 📘 Join our Facebook community: Surviving Toxic Relationships with The Matadoras: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556560386678Disclaimer:  The views expressed by our guests are their own, and this show is for educational purposes only. It is not therapy, medical, or professional advice, and listening does not create a therapeutic relationship. If you need personalized support, please reach out to a licensed professional. If you’re in crisis or immediate danger, please call 911 for help.