Episode 64 - The 15-Year Resentment: What I Learned About Forgiveness in Recovery

Do you need immediate help?Suicide Hotline - 988Substance Abuse and Mental Health hotline - 1-800-662-4357Want to reach out?Find us on:Instagram (@chapter3stigma)YouTube (@Chapter3Stigma)Chapter 3 Stigma Website & BlogIn this episode of Chapter 3 Stigma, Kyle reflects on one of recovery’s most misunderstood challenges: the difference between forgiveness and trust. Sharing his own experience with a 15-year resentment, Kyle explores how the 12 steps helped him finally let go, and why trust doesn't come with forgiveness—it’s earned over time. Whether you're an addict in recovery or someone who loves one, this episode offers a grounding, honest look at how to move forward without rushing reconciliation.00:00 Introduction to the Journey of Recovery01:01 Exploring Forgiveness and Trust03:27 The Impact of Resentment on Recovery07:24 Self-Forgiveness and Its Importance10:19 Understanding the 12 Steps: Forgiveness and Trust14:36 Making Amends and Building Trust16:37 The Distinction Between Forgiveness and Trust18:42 Closing Thoughts on Recovery and RelationshipsTopics/TagsAddiction recoveryForgiveness and trust12 step programSobriety podcastHow to forgive in recoveryRebuilding trust in recoveryResentment in sobrietyEmotional relapseStep 4 and 5 AASelf-forgiveness addictionHealing relationships in addiction