Episode 68: Accept the Compliment

http://patreon.com/deansagemediaWe begin by pulling a haiku card about photosynthesis, using it as a metaphor for nourishing friendships with just the right amount of light and fire so as not to overwhelm or burn them out. This theme of proportion leads us to our second card, the eight of waves, which is explicitly connected to the eight of cups in the traditional tarot. Just as the tarot's eight of cups involves moving away from messy situations and following intuition, our card reminds us to free ourselves from the chaotic shallows and flow toward the source in deeper waters. This prompts a deep discussion on the necessity of allowing our gut instincts and our rational heads to have an open conversation, ensuring that neither type of intelligence is ignored.As we move higher into the chakras, we draw our third card, which humorously but firmly advises us to play hide-and-seek with ourselves, get some therapy, and journal our experiences. This card encourages us to gamify and examine our internal landscape so we can do the difficult work of disassembling past trauma, ensuring we do not navigate the world purely from a place of fear. Our fourth card, the six of flames, brings another direct reference to the tarot as it corresponds to the six of wands, which is described as the stardom card associated with public approval and getting your flowers. This card instructs us to abandon false humility and feel the warmth of those who celebrate our work, reminding us that graciously accepting a genuine compliment is a healthy way to absorb positive energy.We wrap up the reading with our final card, an intersection of metal and air in the sacral and throat chakras that deals with the concepts of feeling and saying. This serves as a vital reminder that our internal emotions and sensations deserve a voice, and if we do not express what we are feeling, we ultimately shortchange ourselves. Looking at the reading as a whole, the progression of these cards guides us through managing the energy we share with others, doing the heavy lifting of internal healing, and ultimately allowing ourselves to both express our truths and accept love from the outside world. Though we note that we did not pull a grounding root chakra card during the episode, we close with the reflection that doing this deep emotional work is like swimming; eventually, you step out of the water, plant your feet firmly on the earth, and use that stabilized foundation to feel your own strength.