Episode #7: Sexy Secrets Of A Sex Therapist

Meet the man behind the woman behind Caitlin's Couch! Calvin Tesler is Caitlin’s loving husband as well as father to their daughter Gabriella! He is a University Professor of History, Writing, and Literature.  Caitlin and Calvin share about their sex life and how, just like Caitlin supports her clients in putting the work in to keep their sex lives alive, she really practices what she preaches! Foreplay only exists between times that you and your partner have sex. There is a connection between getting your needs met outside the bedroom and getting your needs met inside the bedroom. Any judgment, criticism, or irritation, follows you to the bedroom and has an effect on your sex life.  IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL HEAR ABOUT All the sexy secrets of a sex therapist How Caitlin and her husband, Calvin, handle rejection How they practice simmering  How they contribute to keeping their sex life alive SOCIAL MEDIA + QUOTES   “I totally practice what I preach.”   “Part of keeping our sex life alive is the way that we engage with each other between the times that we have sex” “It’s very rare that there are issues inside the bedroom that aren’t there outside the bedroom.” “Between times that we have sex, I feel like we really nurture each other.” “Practice staying in a place of respect and speaking to your partner from that space.”  “We were constantly trying to help each other.”  “That head down there knows that somethings not right in a relationship before that head up here knows.” “Your partner has the biggest impact on your sense of self-worth.”     CONNECT WITH ME Don’t forget to follow me on Instagram @caitlinscouch and on Facebook. Grab your Hard Conversations Checklist and get on the waitlist for the Caitlin’s Couch online membership at Caitlin’s Couch. LOVE OUR PODCAST? Hey there! Don’t forget to give us a rating and review in your podcast player because we’re here to embrace our ladyboners with pride and give other people permission to do so, too. And as always, don’t forget to show your toes some love this week.  This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit caitlinscouch.substack.com