🎙️ EPISODE 7 - Why Some Men Triangulate Women: The Childhood Wounds Behind Validation, Lies, Competition & Control

Why does a man keep multiple women emotionally attached at the same time?Why does he create confusion, competition, and emotional triangles instead of simply choosing?And why does he often lie when confronted?In this episode of the Healed Love Languages Podcast, Paula explores the psychology behind triangulation and the deeper wounds that often drive the behavior.We'll discuss:Why some men need women competing for their attentionThe connection between childhood wounds, insecurity, and validation-seeking Why attention can become a substitute for self-worthThe psychology behind emotional triangles and keeping women "on the line"Why the lie isn't protecting the women—it's protecting the systemWhy accountability often causes triangulators to disappearHow validation addiction differs from genuine intimacyThe biblical difference between confusion and healthy love Why healthy men choose, while wounded men often collect attentionBecause healthy love creates clarity.Healthy love creates safety.Healthy love doesn't need backup plans, emotional triangles, or women competing for a position that was never available.If you've ever wondered why someone kept multiple women emotionally invested while refusing to fully choose any of them, this episode will help you understand the wound behind the behavior and why healing requires accountability.🎙️ And remember:If someone needs women competing for their attention, they're revealing a wound. They are not the prize.This is a conversation about truth, healing, and breaking free from relationship patterns that thrive in confusion.#HealedLoveLanguages #RelationshipHealing #AttachmentStyles #EmotionalHealing #DatingAfter40 #HealthyRelationships #Podcast #ChooseBetter #TruthInMotion