Episode #70: How to Stop Being Codependent; Self Esteem, Boundaries, and Inner Healing

In this powerful episode, Lizzie and Deana dive deep into the roots of codependency, how it’s shaped by childhood trauma, and why it often leads to low self-esteem and toxic relationship patterns. Through raw, relatable stories and hard-earned insights, they unpack how codependency shows up in everyday life — from constantly putting others first to struggling with setting boundaries.You’ll learn why self-care isn’t selfish, how to stop minimizing harmful behavior, and the importance of building a supportive circle while healing. If you're ready to start recognizing red flags, reclaim your voice, and rebuild your confidence — this conversation is for you.👉 Topics Covered:The link between codependency and childhood traumaWhy codependents often struggle with boundaries and self-worthHow to spot and shift toxic relationship dynamicsSteps to begin healing and personal growthThe power of community and small wins on the path to recovery💬 “It starts with recognizing you matter — and your needs are valid.”🔖 Don’t forget to follow, rate & review if this episode resonates — and share with someone who needs to hear it.🎙️ Stay Connected with Us! 📺 Subscribe on YouTube: @survivingrelationships12 🎵 Follow us on TikTok: @survivingtoxicrel 🌐 Visit our website: survivingtoxicrelationships.orgLooking to be a guest or host a guest for your podcast?https://www.joinpodmatch.com/deanalizzie📘 Our book is available on Amazon:  Love With Eyes Wide Open: Teaching Our Daughters to Recognize Red Flags and God's Voice in RelationshipsNot sure what you’re actually seeing in your relationship?           ↓  Get your FREE Discernment Checklist ↓                                                                 https://the-matadoras.kit.com/survivingtoxicrelationshipsContact us anytime at our email:  [email protected] 📘 Join our Facebook community: Surviving Toxic Relationships Disclaimer:  The views expressed by our guests are their own, and this show is for educational purposes only. It is not therapy, medical, or professional advice, and listening does not create a therapeutic relationship. If you need personalized support, please reach out to a licensed professional. If you’re in crisis or immediate danger, please call 911 for help. ...