Episode 70: Stop Comparing Your Marriage to Everyone Else’s (Especially on Social Media)

It’s easy to believe that if you and your partner could just communicate better everything would fall into place. But what if communication isn’t the real problem? Ever catch yourself thinking, "Why can't my relationship look like theirs?" In this episode of Love After Kids series, I’m talking about something so many of us do without even realizing it — comparing our relationship to others. We’ll chat about why comparison is so tempting (especially on social media), how it can quietly erode connection in your relationship, and what to focus on instead. In this episode, you’ll hear:• How to start creating a relationship where you both feel seen and heard again. • Why comparison shows up most in motherhood and marriage.• How social media can create unrealistic expectations.• A mindset shift to create a relationship that actually works for you. This episode is your reminder that the healthiest relationships aren’t picture-perfect — they’re built with intention, communication, and a whole lot of grace. 🎧 Tune in now! Thank you so much for joining me this week on today's episode. Be sure to follow me on IG @therapy.with.kaylaI love hearing about your insights and aha! moments from the show. About the Podcast HostKayla Nettleton is a TX-based licensed therapist, business owner, and mom of 3.In her private practice, Kayla helps women break free from cycles of anxiety, perfectionism, and people-pleasing. Her holistic approach guides clients toward authentic, fulfilling lives by reconnecting with their intuition, setting boundaries, and building confidence.Kayla also works with couples, especially parents balancing marriage and family. She offers both traditional couples therapy and focused intensives (6 to 18 hours) to help partners address key issues like communication, trust, and intimacy.Through empathy and effective therapeutic tools, Kayla helps couples reconnect, thrive, and create healthier, more supportive relationships. Her practice transforms self-doubt and disconnection into growth, healing, and lasting change.Find Kayla on IG: @therapy.with.kaylaTikTok: therapy.with.kaylaYouTube: The Modern Mom's Roadmap to Balance PodcastEmail: [email protected] Consultation: Schedule a Free 20 minute therapy consultation here.