Episode 78: Forget the Fairytale: Rewriting the Stories That Hold Us Back with Deb Miller

In this episode of The Well-Tended Life podcast, I sit down with Deb Miller—author, professor, grandmother, and truth-teller—for an honest and inspiring conversation about rewriting the stories we’ve been handed and daring to create a new kind of happily ever after.Deb’s memoir Forget the Fairytale is both a personal journey and a call to women everywhere to release outdated scripts about who we should be, what a “good girl” does, and where our worth comes from. Through her own experiences of heartbreak, resilience, reinvention, and joy, she shows us how forgetting the fairytale can actually be the beginning of living more freely, authentically, and happily.We talk about the cultural conditioning that keeps women small, the power of claiming our own stories, and how even Disney princesses have evolved from damsels in distress to warriors of their own destiny. Deb also shares the tender wisdom of her daughter’s words, her reflections on motherhood and career pivots, and why choosing happiness is not only possible but powerful.Whether you’re navigating divorce, reinvention, or simply ready to stop living by someone else’s rules, this conversation will stir your courage, spark your imagination, and remind you that it’s never too late to write a new story.✨ Here are a few Heart Taps from this episode:1️⃣ Fairytales reflect culture—but they don’t have to define your life. You can change the story and the ending.2️⃣ Happiness isn’t about circumstances—it’s about the choices we make every day.3️⃣ Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is show your kids (and yourself) what strength looks like.4️⃣ Transformation often starts with a moment—whether it feels like a slap in the face or an unexpected epiphany.5️⃣ Forgetting the fairytale doesn’t mean giving up hope; it means creating your own version of happily ever after.🌸 So grab your journal and settle in—this is a conversation about courage, freedom, and finding joy in the story you choose to tell.CONNECT WITH DEB HERE: https://forgetthefairytale.net/Life-Tending Made Simple is On SaleLTMS is my foundational course built around my simple 5-step practice that’s designed to help you slow down, clear mental clutter, notice what’s really going on in your life, and intentionally tend to what matters most.It’s not about becoming perfect.It’s about becoming more aware, more rooted, and more intentional—one small step at a time.And for a limited time this summer, the course is on sale HERE.So if today’s conversation stirred something in you… this is a beautiful place to begin.CULTIVATE U: A Life Changing  6-Week Virtual MasterclassTHIS IS YOUR SEASON. It’s time to CULTIVATE U: to water YOUR dreams, to unearth YOUR gifts, and finally tend to YOUR relationships, weeds, and needs.Are you exhausted from watering everyone and everything else but you? Could your life, dreams, or relationships use some tending? Would you like to start living a life with less anxiety and more intention? Then click here for info on the next masterclass! Speaking OfAre you looking for a unique speaker? I would love to be a part of your next event! Let’s chat: [email protected]’s Get ConnectedI want to cheer you on as you begin to clear away the clutter and debris that is keeping your from growing that thing that ...