Episode 8, Expat Partner Coach Emma Somerville on Thriving Abroad

In the Season 1 finale of Wives, host Rosamaria Mancini sits down with expat partner coach Emma Somerville to talk about the emotional and practical realities of relocating abroad as a spouse.After moving from Dubai to Pakistan, and now Kenya, Emma shares how she navigated career disruption, identity shifts, loneliness, and the pressure many accompanying partners feel to “hold everything together.”But this conversation isn’t just about the challenges. It’s packed with practical advice for women trying to rebuild confidence, create purpose, and make life work for themselves too.Key takeawaysWhy the first few weeks after relocation should be treated as “low-capacity weeks”Why making friends abroad feels harder as an adult — and how to do it anywayThe importance of creating a “portable passion” that moves with youHow to stop tying your self-worth to productivityWhy underemployment can sometimes feel worse than not working at allHow to communicate resentment and unmet needs before they damage a relationshipWhy your wellbeing directly impacts your children, marriage, and your partner’s assignment successEmma also explains the surprising research behind expat partner wellbeing and why organizations still aren’t doing enough to support accompanying spouses.Resources & LinksEmma Somerville is an expat partner coach, positive psychology practitioner, yoga teacher, mum, and founder of The Zestie Life. She helps accompanying partners build confidence, rediscover purpose, and create fulfilling lives abroad.Connect with Emma:Instagram: @thezestielifeEmail: [email protected] Website: https://zestie.carrd.co/