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EPISODE · Oct 14, 2025 · 1H 3M

Episode 82: Maintain Agency: Live Life Like You Mean It

from Spilt: A Podcast with Charlene and Tonya · host Tonya and Charlene

In this episode, we’re getting real about agency — the ability to make our own choices and shape our lives.It’s easy to get caught up in what everyone else wants from us — family, jobs, expectations, or even past trauma. But at the end of the day, we get to decide who we want to be and how we show up.We also talk about the biblical foundation of agency — God gives us free will, not control — and what it means to make decisions that honor both faith and authenticity.This one’s for anyone feeling like life’s been happening to them instead of through them. Always remember, you’re still in the driver’s seat.Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠mailto:[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ if you have comments, questions, or ideas about future episodes. Be sure to follow, rate, and review to stay informed about future episodes. You can find us on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/spilt.apodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/spilt.podcast/Disclaimer: The views expressed are solely those of the hosts and should not be considered medical or mental health advice.

In this episode, we’re getting real about agency — the ability to make our own choices and shape our lives.It’s easy to get caught up in what everyone else wants from us — family, jobs, expectations, or even past trauma. But at the end of the day, we get to decide who we want to be and how we show up.We also talk about the biblical foundation of agency — God gives us free will, not control — and what it means to make decisions that honor both faith and authenticity.This one’s for anyone feeling like life’s been happening to them instead of through them. Always remember, you’re still in the driver’s seat.Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠mailto:[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ if you have comments, questions, or ideas about future episodes. Be sure to follow, rate, and review to stay informed about future episodes. You can find us on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/spilt.apodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/spilt.podcast/Disclaimer: The views expressed are solely those of the hosts and should not be considered medical or mental health advice.

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