Aftercare Matters: Consent & Event Safety

⚠️ Trigger warnings: sexual assault & abusive relationshipsKemriss scans every event for people who look like they need someone. They also carry DoxyPEP in their bag for whoever asks after.Kemriss (@pupkemriss) is the neon purple professional brat of the UK pup scene, co-runner of the Doggy Style Discord, and a regular at Manchester events from Scritches to K9. This episode covers dark room consent, what cruising language is and why nobody teaches it, and why he audibly retches at consent violators until they leave his space.He also spent 11 years in a relationship. He had no language for it while it was happening. Three years out, this is the first time he's talked about it publicly.After that: aftercare. What it is, why it's different every time, why doms drop too, and why cooking pork belly ramen counts as grounding yourself after a scene.Find Kemriss at @pupkemriss everywhere.The spoon goes in the snoot. The doxy goes in the bag. Neither is an accident. 🐾Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/deviant.duo.podcastFollow us on TikTok: tiktok.com/@deviant.duo.podcast