Episode 9 Before I Knew…Kindness could be something else

There’s a difference between kindness… and what looks like it.In this episode, I speak on something I didn’t fully understand at the time—how being given things, attention, or “help” can sometimes come with something behind it.This isn’t just about what was offered…it’s about what was intended.I reflect on how those patterns can start early, how they carry into adulthood, and how easy it is to accept something when it feels like you need it.And more importantly—what it means to recognize it for what it really is.