Episode 9: Communicating Without Arguing

Send us Fan MailWhen words don’t come out right — or aren’t received the way you hoped — it’s easy for conversations to spiral into arguments. And when Alzheimer’s is in the mix, it’s even harder. In this honest and often humorous episode, Janna and Larry explore why communication can break down so quickly, even with the best intentions. They share real-life examples of misunderstandings, emotional triggers, and missed signals — and offer simple ways couples and care partners can speak (and listen) with more grace. You’ll discover: What to say when your partner is struggling emotionally — and what not to say Why tone and timing matter more than words alone How to support someone with memory loss without interrupting or correcting Tools for staying present and connected, even in conflict If you’ve ever wished for more peace in your conversations, this episode is your gentle, heart-level guide to getting there — together. Links:Maintaining caring relationships in spouses affected by Alzheimer’s disease. ScienceDaily. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/07/150713095148.htm Supportive marriages key to caregiver well-being, Rice study reveals vital link to dementia. Rice University https://news.rice.edu/news/2024/supportive-marriages-key-caregiver-well-being-rice-study-reveals-vital-link-dementia Using validation therapy for people with dementia. Verywell Health. https://www.verywellhealth.com/using-validation-therapy-for-people-with-dementia-98683 Alzheimer’s Association. (n.d.). Communication: Tips for successful communication throughout the stages of Alzheimer’s. Alzheimer’s Association https://www.alz.org/getmedia/4c29359a-c9f0-4ae1-8f95-27e822635ead/alzheimers-dementia-communication-ts.pdf 6 things never to do when caring for someone with Alzheimer’s. Verywell Mind https://www.verywellmind.com/things-never-to-do-when-caring-alzheimers-8776968 Best Alzheimer’s disease support groups.  Verywell Health  https://www.verywellhealth.com/best-alzheimers-disease-support-groups-4844290 Be sure to go to our website at alzheimersthriver.org to learn more about Larry and Janna's adventures.