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EPISODE · Mar 31, 2026 · 18 MIN

Episode 9: Losing Yourself in Medical Motherhood: The Identity Shift No One Talks About

from Holyoaks Rise: Stories of Rising Through the Unexpected · host Amanda Holyoak

Medical Motherhood series: There’s a part of medical motherhood no one really prepares you for…Not the appointments.Not the diagnoses.Not even the relationships.But you.Because somewhere along the way, while you’re caring for everyone else…you start to feel like you’ve lost yourself.In this episode, we’re talking about the identity shift that happens in medical motherhood—the quiet, in-between version of you that no longer feels like who you were… but not quite who you thought you’d become.We’ll walk through:​ the grief of what you expected motherhood to be​ the moment everything stops being about you​ the many roles you carry every single day​ the tension between “nurse brain” and “mom brain”​ and why feeling lost doesn’t mean you areIf you’ve ever thought:“I don’t recognize myself anymore…”You are not alone.And you are not broken.You are becoming.🤍Topics discussed:* Medical motherhood* Identity shifts in caregiving* Parenting a medically complex child* Grief and loss of expectations* Caregiver burnout* NICU and chronic illness parenting* Balancing professional and parent roles* Finding yourself again after medical trauma* Emotional resilience* Personal growth through adversity🎧 Holyoaks Rise: Stories of Rising Through the UnexpectedNew episodes weeklyWarm Memories - Emotional Inspiring Piano by Keys of Moon | https://soundcloud.com/keysofmoonAttribution 4.0 International (CC BY 4.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/Music promoted by https://www.chosic.com/free-music/all/

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