Episode #9 — The Excuse Game: Why You’re Not Really “Too Busy” or “Not Ready”

You’ve told yourself it’s timing. You’ve told yourself it’s discernment. You’ve told yourself, “Let me just get through this season first.” But deep down… you know that’s not the real reason you haven’t moved. In this episode of Tell Your Truth, we’re breaking down the fear behind your most convincing excuses—the ones dressed up as wisdom, stewardship, and logic. Because here’s the truth: You’re not too busy. You’re not unprepared. You’re not waiting on God. You’re just scared. And that fear has been showing up as perfectionism, delay, over-responsibility, and overwhelm. In this episode, Shamika Brown-Upshaw explores the internal struggle between the part of us that is ready to rise and the part that holds us back. She emphasizes the importance of understanding our capacity, the illusion of readiness, and the detrimental effects of procrastination. Shamika encourages listeners to confront their fears, take small actions, and reclaim their power to live authentically. The episode serves as a call to action for those feeling stuck to break free from excuses and embrace their truth. You’ll learn: Why “too busy” is often just a boundary issue in disguise How “I’m not ready” becomes the most dangerous stall tactic How excuses rewire your brain and block your energy Why faith and fear can’t lead at the same time What to do when you’re tired of hiding behind logic and ready to move in alignment This is the permission slip your next level has been waiting for. Plus, Shamika shares the real reason this podcast almost didn’t happen—and how she finally stopped shrinking and started walking in full obedience. Chapters 00:00 The Quiet War Within: Rising vs. Stalling 02:53 Understanding Capacity: Time vs. Space 06:01 The Illusion of Readiness: Fear in Disguise 08:58 The Knowing-Doing Gap: Overcoming Mental Barriers 11:56 The Cost of Delay: Power and Progress 15:01 Living Your Truth: The Journey of Authenticity 17:47 Reclaiming Power: Steps to Move Forward 21:12 Breaking the Cycle: From Fear to Action 23:53 Conclusion: Embracing Your Truth and Power Grab your HeadGame Wraps → https://headgamewraps.etsy.com