EPISODE · Mar 4, 2026 · 33 MIN
Episode #93: When Intimacy Disappears: The Hidden Sign You’re in a Toxic Relationship. Dr Jordin Wiggins
from Surviving Toxic Relationships Podcast with The Matadoras · host Elizabeth Jane and Deana Lynn
What if your burnout, sexual dysfunction, anxiety, or confusion isn’t a hormone problem… but a coercive control problem?In this powerful episode of Surviving Toxic Relationships, we sit down with naturopathic physician, author of The Pink Canary, and host of The Pleasure Principles, Dr. Jordin Wiggins.Jordin works with high-achieving women who appear successful on the outside but are secretly struggling in sexless marriages, emotionally abusive relationships, or rebuilding after divorce.In this conversation, we discuss:• What coercive control actually looks like • Why “super traits” make women more vulnerable to abuse • The connection between toxic relationships and sexual dysfunction • Why traditional therapy often misses power dynamics • Why abuse escalates after separation • How burnout, binge eating, libido loss, and anxiety may be trauma responses • Why “hurt people hurt people” can excuse abuseDr. Wiggins shares her personal story of unknowingly being in an abusive relationship, the medical symptoms she developed, and how awareness changed everything.If you have ever felt confused, blamed yourself, or wondered why nothing you tried “fixed” the relationship, this episode is for you.Because sometimes the problem isn’t you. It’s the system you’re living in.Links to Dr. Wiggins’ book, podcast, and quizzes are below.(Supertraits Quiz) https://form.typeform.com/to/p9OQD3F5?typeform-source=www.upwork.com(Website) https://www.thepleasurecollective.com/Subscribe for more faith-centered conversations on discernment, emotional health, and healing from toxic relationships.Support the show🎙️ Stay Connected with Us! 📺 Subscribe on YouTube: @survivingrelationships12 🎵 Follow us on TikTok: @survivingtoxicrel 🌐 Visit our website: Looking to be a guest or host a guest for your podcast?https://www.joinpodmatch.com/deanalizzieContact us anytime at our email: [email protected] 📘 Join our Facebook community: Surviving Toxic Relationships with The Matadoras: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556560386678Disclaimer: The views expressed by our guests are their own, and this show is for educational purposes only. It is not therapy, medical, or professional advice, and listening does not create a therapeutic relationship. If you need personalized support, please reach out to a licensed professional. If you’re in crisis or immediate danger, please call 911 for help.
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What if your burnout, sexual dysfunction, anxiety, or confusion isn’t a hormone problem… but a coercive control problem? In this powerful episode of Surviving Toxic Relationships, we sit down with naturopathic physician, author of The Pink Canary, and host of The Pleasure Principles, Dr. Jordin Wiggins. Jordin works with high-achieving women who appear successful on the outside but are secretly struggling in sexless marriages, emotionally abusive relationships, or rebuilding after divorce. In...
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