Episode Four and a Half: How to Have a More Productive Conversation with Almost Anyone (another addendum to our bias series)

In this episode, we talk about how to have a reasonable and productive conversation with almost anyone, including someone who seems unreasonably biased or heavily imbalanced in their views. Whether it's politics or flat-earthism or theological issues or any number of conspiracy theories, we all need to learn to come to the table with respect and an open mind. So regardless of what the other person's approach might be, I bring some tips on how to have a productive conversation with almost anyone. For what it's worth, here's my main points:  1. Remember that all of us are biased, and that our job isn't to straighten anyone out -- it's to get to the truth. Even if that means they're right. 2. Set boundaries and insist on polite discourse - no interrupting, equal time, no anger, no red herrings, no appeals to a mysterious “they." 3. Ask for evidence or citations when applicable, but don’t be annoying about it. 4. Challenge only in a friendly way. 5. Make sure you’re being understood, too — ask questions like, “does that make sense?” or “does that follow okay?” 6. Don’t end in ambiguity — tally up points of significance and impact. If we commit to doing these things, we're sure to have a more productive, beneficial and intellectually honest conversation with anyone, as long as they're willing to "play by the rules." I hope this helps! Music credit: "Cute Avalanche" by RKVC - No Copyright (Thanks, RKVC!)