ERP 186: How to Prioritize the Most Important Element of Your Relationship – an Interview with Rabbi Manis Friedman

About Rabbi Manis Friedman: World-renowned author, counselor, lecturer and philosopher, Rabbi Manis Friedman uses ancient wisdom and modern wit as he captivates audiences around the country and the world. Rabbi Friedman started an organization called "It's Good to Know" which reaches thousands of people every month through his online classes and events.      (Please listen to the podcast episode or read the transcript to hear explanations, stories and examples.) In this episode, Rabbi Manis Friedman and Dr. Jessica Higgins discuss:  Functional marriages versus intimate marriages.  Love doesn't bond you, it separates you, because love is a personal experience.  The difference between sex and intimacy.  The harm of pornography and its pervasiveness in society.  The essence of marriage is giving and receiving.  Addressing tension points to build intimacy and trust.  Only getting married if you believe in marriage and are in it forever.  What home should feel like, regardless of moods.  "The thing that is ruining marriages today is love – love has become toxic, and love cannot hold a relationship together, it wasn't meant to. Being in love does not mean you're in a good relationship, it means you found some pleasure in your life." —  Rabbi Manis Friedman    Mentioned:   Twitter: @ManisFriedman Facebook: Rabbi Manis Friedman Website: ItsGoodToKnow.org Instagram: @rabbimanisfriedman    Books: The Joy of Intimacy: A Soulful Guide to Love, Sexuality, & Marriage & Doesn't Anyone Blush Anymore? Show: Ideas that Change the World… YouTube: Rabbi Manis Friedman LinkedIn: Manis Friedman   Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins:   Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins Twitter: @DrJessHiggins Website: drjessicahiggins.com   Email: [email protected]    If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the "Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins" button here.   Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.   Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.   Thank you!    If you are interested in developing new skills to overcome relationship challenges, please consider taking the Connected Couple Program or engaging in relationship coaching work with me.