Ethical Adulthood: A Detroit Soundtrack | You’re So Vain by Carly Simon

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, I talk about You’re So Vain, not simply as a brilliant takedown of a self-absorbed man, but as a song about vanity as failed adulthood.Vanity is not just liking yourself too much. It is what happens when a person chooses the performance of being special over the responsibility of being real.And it honors the person left behind, who gets clear enough to say:I see you.And I see what you chose.Andrea Fiondo Kundalini Yoga in Detroit Ethical Adulthood: A Detroit Soundtrack