"Everybody is Lying" - Ute Heggen talks to Kelly about her experience of marrying a trans woman

Send us a textTakeawaysUte Heggen shares her experience as a trans widow.The psychological impact of cross-dressing on relationships is profound.Therapists often affirm gender identity without addressing underlying issues.Childhood trauma can significantly influence gender identity.Custody battles can be complicated by a partner's gender transition.Post-traumatic stress can arise from relationship challenges.Social contagion plays a role in the rise of gender identity issues.Cognitive behavioural therapy can help in managing negative thought patterns.The ethics of gender affirmation in therapy is a contentious issue.Nature and gardening can be therapeutic for mental health. Children are burdened by societal lies.Physical activity can aid mental health.Healing requires addressing trauma.Family relationships are impacted by social dynamics.Self-protection is essential in changing times.Nature can provide solace and joy.Education plays a crucial role in development.Motherhood is a complex journey.Family dynamics can be complicated.Finding joy in community is vital.SummaryIn this conversation, Ute Heggen shares her journey as a trans widow, discussing the profound psychological impact of her ex-husband's cross-dressing on their relationship. She explores the role of therapy in gender identity, the influence of childhood trauma, and the complexities of custody battles. Ute emphasizes the importance of cognitive behavioural therapy and the healing power of nature and gardening, while also addressing the ethical considerations surrounding gender affirmation in therapy. In this conversation, Ute Heggen and Kelly Oliver Dougall explore the complexities of parenting, trauma, and the impact of societal changes on family dynamics. They discuss the burden of lies that children face, the importance of physical and mental well-being, and the strategies for healing from trauma. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of self-protection, the joy found in nature and community, and the role of education in child development. Ute shares personal anecdotes about motherhood, the challenges of family relationships, and the journey of self-discovery and acceptance.Be My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingSupport the show