Everyone Wants To Say Yes Mistress w/ Justine Cross

Justine Cross is a professional dominatrix, dungeon owner, educator, and sex worker advocate who grew up in the tri-state area where she actually received surprisingly comprehensive sex education growing up between private and public schools, something she credits with shaping how she thinks about sex, consent, and power dynamics today. In this episode we talk about how someone becomes a professional dominatrix, what actually happens inside a BDSM dungeon, and why kink spaces are often far more structured, communicative, and consent-focused than most people expect. We also get into power dynamics, submission, community, play parties, and the difference between what people imagine BDSM is and what it actually looks like in real life. Join the live watch party on YouTube today, episode release day, at 4p PT / 7p ET: https://www.youtube.com/@birdsandbeesdontfck FCK LIKE THE MOVIES _____________________________________________________________ You know Justine and I are not holding back on these Reddit stories. Join Patreon and dive in! https://www.patreon.com/cw/birdsandbeesdontfck Where to find Justine: Instagram: @thejustinecross https://www.instagram.com/thejustinecross/ tiktok: @thejustinecross https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustinecross x: @justineplays https://x.com/justineplays Bluesky: @justineplays https://bsky.app/profile/justineplays.bsky.social Fetlife: @justineplays https://fetlife.com/Justineplays Website: www.LosAngelesDominatrix.com Dungeon: www.stellaobscura.com   Where to find Arielle: Instagram: @birdsandbeesdontfck https://www.instagram.com/birdsandbeesdontfck TikTok: @birdsandbeesdontfck https://www.tiktok.com/@birdsandbeesdontfck Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/birdsandbeesdontfck Bonus stories found exclusively on Patreon STORY 1: Younger sister is a tradwife and I secretly set up an investment account in case she needs to leave her husband. Do I tell her? STORY 2: Am I the jerk for sleeping with my colleague after my husband left me?   Like my cuffs AND my vibrator necklace? Me too. Get $15 Off Crave Pleasure Jewelry Here: https://lovecrave.com/arielle   Episode Cheat Sheet 02:18 Growing up in the tri-state area with surprisingly comprehensive sex education 05:07 Early ideas about sex, consent, and communication 08:36 How Justine became a professional dominatrix 12:11 What actually happens inside a professional BDSM dungeon 15:42 Negotiation, boundaries, and why kink requires clear consent 19:55 The psychology of domination and submission 24:18 Why people are drawn to power dynamics and BDSM 28:43 Debunking myths about dominatrices and kink culture 32:27 The difference between fantasy kink and real BDSM practice 37:06 Community, play parties, and finding kink-friendly spaces 41:15 Running a dungeon and the logistics behind the scenes 46:02 Why BDSM spaces can feel safer than mainstream dating culture 50:18 Humor, curiosity, and why kink doesn't have to be dark or scary 55:31 What people misunderstand most about BDSM and domination