Exes at Weddings? A Brutally Honest Conversation About Wedding Guest Lists

We answer a Wedding Hive listener's burning questions about wedding etiquette, tackling everything from inviting exes to RSVP timelines with brutal honesty and practical advice.• Never invite exes to your wedding - both hosts agree this creates awkward situations and raises questions about your readiness for marriage• The devil's advocate perspective: even childhood friends who became exes or family friends with brief romantic history can create uncomfortable dynamics• Traditional RSVP method: physical invitations with stamped return cards (Grace's approach)• Modern RSVP solution: wedding websites that automatically track responses, meal choices and generate spreadsheets for planning• It's acceptable to politely request monetary gifts instead of physical items - just be straightforward about what you prefer• Recommended RSVP timeline: request responses 45 days before wedding, giving you time to follow up with non-responders before venue deadlines (typically 30 days)• For guests unfamiliar with technology, be prepared to help them RSVP or have someone assist themFor more wedding advice and daily hot takes, follow us on Instagram and submit your questions to be featured in future episodes!Follow the Wedding Hive Podcast on all social media and podcast platforms! Check out 4 Carat Vodka on all social media and check out their website to learn more!