Expecting A Better Future In A Realistic Way

Gary and I discuss, what a better future in a realistic way is.  And how it's perceived.  Many folks living with mental illness have trouble with expectations.  Actually many without mental health disorders also suffer with this idea.  Should we expect, a better future?  Should we accept a better future?  Should we be in control of, or out of control when it comes to our "wants, needs, and desires".  What does "a better" Future look like.  Is it the same for everyone?